Ds2 is 11 months he slept well when he was tiny but gradually for worse. He's up now playing and laughing. He doesn't go to bed until between 9-11. He naps fine (Although he will only nap in a cushion nest on the sofa not in his cot). It normally takes 2-3 bottles of formula to get him to sleep and then it's a nightmare putting him in the cot without him waking. HV told me he should only have one bottle and then go to bed and do controlled crying. I tried once and he made himself sick. I can't do it but I'm going crazy as ds1 wakes at 6 everyday. Dh works evenings so I have to do both dcs bed time. Ds1 goes to bed at 7 so I think ds2 is over tired by the time I try to settle him. I don't know what to do. ( I also have pnd which isn't helped by lack of sleep).