Thank you for starting this discussion @DangerQuakeRhinoSnake .
I don't know whether bots are taking over or not, but there is certainly a culture of ostracising those who question prevailing views. What I do know is that I've never felt so saddened, isolated or unwelcome online on Mumsnet @BeckyAMumsnet as I did last night reading discussions about immigration and the trouble in Belfast.
What struck me wasn't disagreement, reasonable people can disagree. It was the way misinformation, sweeping generalisations and outright falsehoods were repeated as fact, while anyone asking for evidence was dismissed, shouted down or piled on. When asking for data and accurate evidence becomes controversial, something has gone badly wrong.
The atmosphere felt less like debate and more like playground bullying: rumours and half-truths spreading unchecked, people ganging up on those who question the narrative, and little interest in facts once a crowd has decided what it wants to believe.
I feel the same disappointment with Mumsnet. It no longer feels like the supportive, thoughtful community it once was. Reporting misinformation seems pointless, while inflammatory and misleading posts are allowed to stand. As a mum, it no longer feels like a safe or welcoming place to ask questions or exchange views.
What saddens me most is that the audience itself seems to have changed. Are these long time MN users or just here to spread their views.
Discussions increasingly feel taken over and dominated by political outrage and ideological point-scoring rather than the everyday conversations and mutual support that once defined the site. The sense of isolation when surrounded by misinformation and hostility is very real.
Mumsnet risks losing the people who made it what it was. When the current outrage cycle passes and those who appear only during moments of political conflict move on, what will be left? ( and Mumsnet, you will only have yourselves to blame for not managing the situation with integrity).