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Suggestion: A not in the spirit of Mumsnet report function

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Bloodyscarymary · 31/08/2025 20:10

I have noticed that there are a number of deeply unpleasant posters across a lot of threads, people with no interest in supporting an OP with advice or even very strongly held opinions of their own, but rather focused on being goady, insulting and aggressive.

These posters don’t veer into the realm of personal attack but they do shut discussion down and I imagine make OPs who have to experience them less willing to post in the future.

Does there exist a way to report these posters?

And if not, might I suggest a “posts not in the spirit of Mumsnet” report function. One report wouldn’t be enough for mumsnet to take action but perhaps if a user gets say, 20 such reports, then they get a time out from using their account?

Perhaps Mumsnet feels that that these posters keep engagement up because they cause arguments but I think the beauty of the site is cheerful, principled or even heated disagreement and debate whereas these poisonous posters aren’t trying to make a case, they’re just nitpicking and bitter and serve to derail threads or simply silence the OP so other users don’t get anymore updates.

Reddit has the upvote and downvote function where posters like this would just get downvoted until their posts were hidden from view. I think mumsnet needs a way to deal with them too.

OP posts:
HyggeTygge · 03/09/2025 11:15

Corfumanchu · 03/09/2025 10:15

SENs are overdiagnosed
Women never make up rape alkegations
Brexit/Reform party are evil
Israel is wrong

You've never seen any posts arguing against those? Because there are loads.

MotherofPufflings · 03/09/2025 11:19

ErrolTheDragon · 03/09/2025 10:39

You're reading selectively, it seems.Confused

Agreed. If anything I'd say the opposite viewpoint is more common for at least some of those. Which just shows how hard it is to be objective.

HarrietBond · 16/09/2025 10:03

I thought of this thread just now as I've been reading through some random recent threads this morning and remain really depressed by the level of rudeness and anger I'm seeing, against totally innocuous posters. Jokes flying over people's heads. The worse possible assumptions being made.

I can see you can't run around reporting 'tone' like this. But I really feel like my MN days are coming to an end as I come away depressed.

HyggeTygge · 16/09/2025 13:19

I do get what you mean, @HarrietBond . I think it's worse on the big threads but the more nichey ones are still nice and frequently useful.

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