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Reactions are here - update from MNHQ

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KatyMumsnet · 18/12/2024 14:10

We’ve listened to your feedback! While many of you have enjoyed the ‘Thanks’ button, you also told us that you'd love more ways to express your feelings on the site.

Starting today, you now have the choice of four reactions:
‘Agree’, ‘Love’, ‘Funny’, and ‘Thanks’.

Here’s how it works:

  • Select the ‘React’ button underneath the OP or reply.
  • Choose the reaction that reflects how you feel about the post.
  • Reactions are private and are only visible to the post owner.
  • You can select one reaction per post.

We hope this gives you even more ways to engage with posts and share how you feel.

Let us know your thoughts or any questions in the comments below!

OP posts:
SabreIsMyFave · 18/12/2024 16:05

GrumpyCactus · 18/12/2024 14:21

Seems like a pretty unnecessary update, thanks worked fine for people acknowledging they agreed with your post.

It also seems odd to put out a new feature whilst ignoring the repeated issues of the site regularly freezing and having to close the browser down because it's frozen and the page is not responding. Surely that should be a priority over this update?

This. ^ Not sure how I feel about this sorry @KatyMumsnet The 'thanks' choice has gone too hasn't it?

How come this has happened? I never saw anyone asking for it.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 18/12/2024 16:06

Nothatgingerpirate
Noticed in another thread, comments that didn't express direct support to the OP or take their side got deleted.
(A guy whose girlfriend got physical under influence).

There are ways and ways of disagreeing with an OP. Some are simply nasty, or offensive for any number of reasons, and need to be removed.

Samcro · 18/12/2024 16:07

please can someone react to this post, just so I can see what happens.
thanks

UndeniablyGenX · 18/12/2024 16:07

SabreIsMyFave · 18/12/2024 16:05

This. ^ Not sure how I feel about this sorry @KatyMumsnet The 'thanks' choice has gone too hasn't it?

How come this has happened? I never saw anyone asking for it.

Thanks is still there, I have just thanked your post.

AnyoneSomeone · 18/12/2024 16:07

UndeniablyGenX · 18/12/2024 15:36

I’d love to know the breakdown on the length of time MNers have been MNers, and the feedback answers (if that makes sense!)

Been here about nine years now and I like them.

Been here on and off for over 15 years and I like them. I do love an emoji though.

VacuumPacked · 18/12/2024 16:08

ABunchOfBadBitches · 18/12/2024 15:07

So do you never use emojis? Because you’re grown up?

I didn’t say that - you are misquoting me but seeing as you ask, rarely and yes

Samcro · 18/12/2024 16:08

thanks you . I like it.

BakeOffRewatch · 18/12/2024 16:09

I didn’t ask for it and don’t appreciate the new feature. The thanks wasn’t wanted either but wasn’t too intrusive. This is Facebook.

BakeOffRewatch · 18/12/2024 16:12

The hands is “thanks”, thumbs up is “agree”, heart is “love” and laughing face is “funny” - those are the words that come up if you hold your finger over the images. I don’t see them otherwise.

saraclara · 18/12/2024 16:12

Yeah. I don't like it. The thanks was okay, and a mature way to show appreciation. But the applause emoji expresses something quite different, and the rest is just juvenile FB stuff.

TomatoAuberginePotatoTurnip · 18/12/2024 16:12

UndeniablyGenX · 18/12/2024 15:51

But if people want to do that, they can already quote and post a 😂emoji, which is public.

Yeah but now you can laugh at someone in private, and no-one will know so can't stand up for the person being laughed at.

It could be a way to be a bully online with no-one else knowing.

VacuumPacked · 18/12/2024 16:13

Nothatgingerpirate · 18/12/2024 16:02

I like the heart ❤️ button as well, however, not one disagreement emoji!
Noticed in another thread, comments that didn't express direct support to the OP or take their side got deleted.
(A guy whose girlfriend got physical under influence).

@Nothatgingerpirate this site tends to be self policing - replies which are offensive or personal attacks are removed, although several posters regularly skate close to the edge, pushing their luck and demolishing boundaries

SilverChampagne · 18/12/2024 16:14

VacuumPacked · 18/12/2024 14:21

yes, I was about to ‘thank’ you then hesitated - this new form is clumsy, cumbersome, limited despite the ‘options’ I wouldnt voluntarily use such hideous icons anyway, being a grown up ?!

Agree.

KatyMumsnet · 18/12/2024 16:16

@SabreIsMyFave thanks is still there, it's the first option. We've had a lot of feedback since we launched thanks asking for more reactions!

OP posts:
DeanElderberry · 18/12/2024 16:17

@KatyMumsnet please please please give me an easy way to not see these. I'm horrified to see that even 'thanks' left on the old system now appear as bright blue blobs. Let those of us who can't cope with that, opt out of getting them (and of seeing the old ones).

SoupDragon · 18/12/2024 16:18

Nothatgingerpirate · 18/12/2024 16:02

I like the heart ❤️ button as well, however, not one disagreement emoji!
Noticed in another thread, comments that didn't express direct support to the OP or take their side got deleted.
(A guy whose girlfriend got physical under influence).

The only deleted one I can see is one that clearly called the OP an arsehole when he was the won who was assaulted. Presumably deleted for classic victim blaming.

Nothatgingerpirate · 18/12/2024 16:20

SoupDragon · 18/12/2024 16:18

The only deleted one I can see is one that clearly called the OP an arsehole when he was the won who was assaulted. Presumably deleted for classic victim blaming.

Presumably.
Thanks.

RoadToBeverly · 18/12/2024 16:21

TomatoAuberginePotatoTurnip · 18/12/2024 16:12

Yeah but now you can laugh at someone in private, and no-one will know so can't stand up for the person being laughed at.

It could be a way to be a bully online with no-one else knowing.

I agree.

VacuumPacked · 18/12/2024 16:22

saraclara · 18/12/2024 16:12

Yeah. I don't like it. The thanks was okay, and a mature way to show appreciation. But the applause emoji expresses something quite different, and the rest is just juvenile FB stuff.

@saraclara yes - I sent a text message to my daughter who disagreed
with what I said and was forthright about it.
Then followed it up with the clapping hands.
I saw this for what it was, an insolent gesture.
Obviously I dealt with it as a mother.

However if I made an innocuous comment say and received clapping hands
from someone purporting to be my equal on here, I would not be best pleased
and would say so. Juvenile FB stuff is correct.
We can indeed see who has sent one of these ghastly emojis - Ive sent a couple myself just now, but you know, we say, if it works don’t fix it.

What I dread is remark and feedback degenerating into a DM type quagmire.

AngelontopoftheTree · 18/12/2024 16:25

RoadToBeverly · 18/12/2024 15:38

Just the thanks was good. No issues with that.

This is a you problem, assigning intent to a reaction.
Maybe someone was testing out the reactions....

BakeOffRewatch · 18/12/2024 16:26

They’re the wrong emojis for MN culture. It should be

thanks BrewBrew
agree WineGin
love Flowers - like sympathy or hugs
funny Grin

SabreIsMyFave · 18/12/2024 16:28

UndeniablyGenX · 18/12/2024 16:07

Thanks is still there, I have just thanked your post.

Ah ha, yes it's the clapping emoji. Ta muchly! Smile

DeanElderberry · 18/12/2024 16:30

If we can't opt out, can we have the option of seeing the reaction as a word (in the same colour as the rest of the text) not as a coloured image, Since MN knows what the blobs are meant to mean, a simple direct translation to that word should be straightforward.

But coloured blobs appearing without any choice are downright evil.

I thought the argument about imposing coloured emojis on message board users who need clarity and accessibility had been fought and won about 20 years ago - amazed to see it surfacing again now.

AngelontopoftheTree · 18/12/2024 16:31

AngelontopoftheTree · 18/12/2024 16:25

This is a you problem, assigning intent to a reaction.
Maybe someone was testing out the reactions....

Sorry!! I Misquoted - apologies!

SabreIsMyFave · 18/12/2024 16:31

Samcro · 18/12/2024 16:07

please can someone react to this post, just so I can see what happens.
thanks

Your wish is my command. I put a 😆