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"boomer" thread

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Maireas · 28/08/2023 20:29

You've hidden this evening's offensive, ageist thread, stereotyping "boomers". Will this be deleted? Can we have a robust response to ageism on MN?

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greenhydrangea · 30/08/2023 00:59

No. I've been talking about societal level economic data.

Oh, come on. You've not even been accurate about which of these marketing generations you've been complaining (so vociferously, over 100s of posts) about.

WarOnTheSlugs · 30/08/2023 01:01

Hilarious that on a thread complaining about personal attacks there have been so many posters doing exactly that, just because somebody dared to challenge their worldview. Absolute refusal to engage with the economic arguments, all about attacking the poster who made the points.

Personal questions about my own activities or circumstances and spiteful comments about my children and enquiries into my financial circumstances. Accusations of me being bitter etc. How my children will hate me when they grow up.

You really should take a long, hard look at yourselves.

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LadyVictoriaSponge · 30/08/2023 01:02

WarOnTheSlugs · 30/08/2023 00:57

Not that it's any of your business but yes. I struggle for money in terms of monthly income because of huge costs monthly to support my disabled children's care needs. We still have a very nice house, that I paid for.

You brought your finances, and your parents finances into the discussion not me, if you didn’t want to be questioned on it you shouldn’t have posted your financial status in the first place.

sunglassesonthetable · 30/08/2023 01:03

You really should take a long, hard look at yourselves.

Sweetie so should you.

sunglassesonthetable · 30/08/2023 01:04

How my children will hate me when they grow up.m

Nope no one said that.

Facts . Remember.

ilovesooty · 30/08/2023 01:08

@WarOnTheSlugs you didn't like how I spoke to you earlier today. I reflected on your feedback and apologised for the words I used.

You don't like how people are debating with you now and I have politely pointed out that one of your comments seemed somewhat inflammatory. You seemed to find that amusing and your use of those emojis now seems designed to provoke people into losing their temper.

I appreciate that emotions are running high but it doesn't seem helpful to me.

sunglassesonthetable · 30/08/2023 01:08

Personal questions about my own activities or circumstances and spiteful comments about my children and enquiries into my financial circumstances. Accusations of me being bitter etc. How my children will hate me when they grow up.

Hmm. Think it was you that wrote the long post about your family circumstances. ( Obviously to show how you'd lost out )

You brought your parents into the discussion.

You were asked what you thought about your kids asking you the same questions in years to come.

And yes you sound very bitter.

WarOnTheSlugs · 30/08/2023 01:08

sunglassesonthetable · 30/08/2023 00:48

Congratulations, more selective quoting! I am allowed to make some personal comments about my experience. Hang on, did we not just have you all telling me that "lived experience" is as valid as statistically validated societal level data? Confusing. However, my short asides about personal experiences nonetheless were just that, with the vast majority of my comments which you - shockingly!! - didn't include in your selective quotations were about social and economic trends and policy choices over decades at a societal level, and the subsequent impact of that.

Well I couldn't quote it all! 🤦‍♀️ There's reams of it!!!

Nope you are just as anecdotal, critical and personal as anybody else on here. Just as defensive and irrational as the next person.

No I didn't include the socio economic lectures . Bit bored of that at this stage and you've made your point like endlessly.

You're obviously loving being an economist, crack on. ^You pretend it's about the data but the bitterness is really tangible.
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As it happens my son (b. 1994 - when I was sitting back and enjoying low taxes - obviously not personal though ) is an Economist so I hear about the socio economic trends and policy choice^ thing from him.

Though not so bitter. ^

In that case there is absolutely no excuse for the ignorance you've demonstrated, or your unwarranted and repeated rudeness to me. Perhaps you are projecting some kind of problem in your relationship with him onto me? I don't know. It's not normal behaviour, anyway, this weird fixation you have with me or all of the nasty personal comments you made about me and my children. So I won't be replying to you further.

sunglassesonthetable · 30/08/2023 01:09

In that case there is absolutely no excuse for the ignorance you've demonstrated, or your unwarranted and repeated rudeness to me. Perhaps you are projecting some kind of problem in your relationship with him onto me? I don't know. It's not normal behaviour, anyway, this weird fixation you have with me or all of the nasty personal comments you made about me and my children. So I won't be replying to you further.

😆😆😆😆 Keep digging

WarOnTheSlugs · 30/08/2023 01:11

ilovesooty · 30/08/2023 01:08

@WarOnTheSlugs you didn't like how I spoke to you earlier today. I reflected on your feedback and apologised for the words I used.

You don't like how people are debating with you now and I have politely pointed out that one of your comments seemed somewhat inflammatory. You seemed to find that amusing and your use of those emojis now seems designed to provoke people into losing their temper.

I appreciate that emotions are running high but it doesn't seem helpful to me.

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Yes, I found that amusing at this point, because I'd endured some pretty spiteful personal attacks between when I exchanged messages with you earlier today, and now. So decided to make light of the situation (excuse the pun 🔥).

I agree that it would have been far better for the thread to have progressed without personal attacks, but that has gone on for several hours now, and not instigated by me.

sunglassesonthetable · 30/08/2023 01:12

Except for the ones you instigated . Of course. See below.

WarOnTheSlugs · 30/08/2023 01:14

You brought your finances, and your parents finances into the discussion not me, if you didn’t want to be questioned on it you shouldn’t have posted your financial status in the first place.

I didn't. Only in response now to someone who was insinuating I was lying. What I wrote earlier was about my parents' finances - relevant to the thread because they are Boomers. I said nothing about the specifics of my own these days until the inquisition tried to paint me as a liar.

sunglassesonthetable · 30/08/2023 01:14

Please , If I made ANY nasty comments about you or your children @WarOnTheSlugs get them deleted. The button is right there.

I'm happy to ignore the one you just made about my son.

LadyVictoriaSponge · 30/08/2023 01:15

WarOnTheSlugs · 30/08/2023 01:14

You brought your finances, and your parents finances into the discussion not me, if you didn’t want to be questioned on it you shouldn’t have posted your financial status in the first place.

I didn't. Only in response now to someone who was insinuating I was lying. What I wrote earlier was about my parents' finances - relevant to the thread because they are Boomers. I said nothing about the specifics of my own these days until the inquisition tried to paint me as a liar.

You did, laid out bare for all to see.

WarOnTheSlugs · 30/08/2023 01:16

I don't generally report nasty comments. I'd rather leave them there for all to see, so that the posters who have made them are exposed for exactly what they are. Obviously others may report them, and I could well have had them deleted, but I've chosen not to. I think they should stand, as a permanent embarrassment to those who made them.

LadyVictoriaSponge · 30/08/2023 01:17

No self reflection I see.

sunglassesonthetable · 30/08/2023 01:18

Of course @WarOnTheSlugs because there aren't any.

Night 💥💥💥

WarOnTheSlugs · 30/08/2023 01:19

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LadyVictoriaSponge · 30/08/2023 01:20

Keep digging, it’s very entertaining.

greenhydrangea · 30/08/2023 01:22

We want you all to be cosy.

So unpleasant.

Your entire contribution to this thread - which by the way is about the offensive, ageist stereotyping of "Boomers" on MN - is just more offensive, ageist stereotyping, seemingly based on a long bitter resentment towards your own parents, laid out in this thread in a lengthy post for all to see, much as you deny it.

ilovesooty · 30/08/2023 01:23

LadyVictoriaSponge · 30/08/2023 01:20

Keep digging, it’s very entertaining.

I don't think it's entertaining at all.

I think the comments appertaining to the fuel allowance are rather spiteful and the use of the emojis is deliberately provocative. Unfortunately that provocation appears to be having the effect which was intended.

WarOnTheSlugs · 30/08/2023 01:24

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Threenow · 30/08/2023 01:25

Well, this thread appears to have been taken over by a few people for their personal agendas - what a surprise. I've about had enough of MN, time to move on methinks, and find some more tolerant people who are up for a sensible discussion rather than a bunch of zealots determined to blame all the ills of society on one generation of people.

WarOnTheSlugs · 30/08/2023 01:33

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