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Can we have the ability to hide goady posters please?

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ChelseaDaggers · 21/09/2020 16:47

There are posters on here who I have come across recently, who basically admit to just being here to snigger at or to harass parents who are struggling. They don't like children and they think anyone who has them is selfish, they describe children as a disease etc. They don't technically break talk guidelines, although I do question whether a poster joining a parenting forum, specifically because they dislike parents and children to be not in the spirit / borderline trolling.

I know that even if we could hide their posts, they could snigger behind their screens and never post and I'd be none the wiser, but the problem is, e can't hide them, they're goady and they can't help themselves. It makes this not feel like a safe space for parents, despite it being a "parenting" forum, as these people are allowed to do this with absolutely no intervention that I can see.

So, could we please have the ability to hide posts by specific posters? I know they could just name change and come back again on a different thread, but they usually give themselves away pretty quickly.

There are plenty of childfree spaces online. These people have no place here imo. They won't be banned I am guessing, but I still don't want to have to read their crap.

I am not talking about all childless/childfree people btw. I know there are loads of people who aren't parents who still contribute in a positive and / or constructive way.

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LilyMumsnet · 21/09/2020 17:59

Hi OP

Thanks so much for the suggestion.

As ever, we are happy to discuss and consider these things but we're not quite sure that hiding posters would be possible. At least not in the near future.

As ever, please do continue to report your concerns to us. Sometimes, if someone isn't breaking talk guidelines, it might not look as though we're doing much - but rest assured, all reports are investigated and repeat concerns are something we've always got an eye on. Flowers

Eatsleepchatrepeat · 21/09/2020 18:20

MNHQ hiding posters is quite a regular feature on many forums though...I'm sure tattle have it? Although I'd have to check. Maybe it could be a premium feature?

EmbarrassingMama · 21/09/2020 18:22

Hmm Hiding trolls shouldn’t be an option to those who can afford the subscription.

MillyMollyFarmer · 21/09/2020 18:23

I have never understood why Mumsnet can’t offer this. It’s standard in many other places but not here.

ChelseaDaggers · 21/09/2020 18:29

Glad it isn't just me!

Tbh, I don't think it should be a premium feature. It is a way to stay safe on a forum which is meant to be safe for parents, especially women. That shouldn't be "optional", for a small fee.

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Eatsleepchatrepeat · 21/09/2020 18:41

Apologies it was tongue in cheek as premium currently doesnt have any benefits as far as I can see. Apart from losing £50. Wink. It definately should be a standard feature

ChelseaDaggers · 21/09/2020 18:42

Ah right, sorry, it's hard to tell in text Smile

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ChelseaDaggers · 21/09/2020 20:07

we're not quite sure that hiding posters would be possible

Can you explain why you think this is impossible?

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Anordinarymum · 21/09/2020 20:18

But how would you know who is and who is not a troll?

Hingeandbracket · 22/09/2020 15:53

Having a list of poster IDs you want to hide would be possible (and as others have said is done elsewhere). However, it's not possible to stop others from quoting the GF poster in a thread, especially using the de facto MN standard of a copy and paste highlighted in bold (for some odd reason), so not sure how much it would achieve.

Quaagars · 25/09/2020 08:28

@Anordinarymum

But how would you know who is and who is not a troll?
This I can see it being used a lot to create an echo chamber, and people hiding others just because they don't like their opinion.
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