Im so confused by this really am.
went back to work fulltime after eldest in 2007 for some reason I wanted to ensure i was settled before arranging childcare vouchers through my work as seem quite complex. My husband working fulltime too did it his side full amount £243 so I thourght they took 160 salary from gross and then paid nursery £243 in vouchers the i paid hubby 160 cash.
I then moved employers and dident get round to sorting it out through them .
I left work as we both worked fulltime, no family nearby . by time paid 800+nursery commute was left with £300 net , hardly saw hubby and missed out on lots time with my child.
We still kept on nursery for 1 day a week as she as settled , had freinds was good for her devlopment the 15hours funding term after her 3rd birthday helped at we stopped nursery and just did preschool-term time only.
She started school 2010 breckfast clubs £2.50 and after school clubs £7 I know one mum working with 4 and was paying for all 4 so £9.50 each a day 4*9.50 a day so £38 quid a day £190 a week she was full time but newly qualified secondry teacher.
I know people who use vouchers for explore learning centres as we considered that.
The breckfast club started at 8 too late for some and after school 5.30 too early,
Our nursery only did 8-6 hardly any go 7-7. we worked in retail so no cover for weekends and bank hols.
we since had 2kids.
my 3year olds september born so wont start school until sept 2014 weird you can defer them but no flexibility start them earlier.
She does mix of nursery from 18months and started preschool in september when she as 3 they now take from age 2 but the site and small space wouldent feel comfortable starting her there earlier or her younger brother.
Im splitting my 15hours between 2settings so
1half days preschool-3sessions-term time only so free as funding only covers term time.
But nursery she does whole day 8-5.
now shes egtting funding my term time bill will be cut by half but will have defecit s funding 32 weeks a year and private day nursery
is the 15hours free for all 3year olds being scrapped or means tested? at moment its universil.
the 2year old funding seems to be targeted at people on benefits and way of educating parents dn giving child extra support so they not behind when start school its not neccesarily childcare its about sure start and their policies.
We are using childcare vouchers through hubbys work which think saves us £40 a month as nursery 38 a day and 4week month £152 anc vouchers are £160.
I have a 20month old and really want to start him in nursery but unsure where i stand as if have 2preschoolers in nursery just one day a week its going to cost me £80 day -partially funded by nursery grant for 3year old but another year half before she starts primary.
Im hoping to set up own business this year and be self employed so currently if self employed i cant use vouchers but hubby still in work can do still.
We lost tax credits april.
we keeping child benefit as under 50k.
Although i admit the 2parent anomoly with cb unfair.
Whys it all families and not oaps?
I am sahm mum but hopefully not useless.
My husband works long hours
we have no family here.
living costs rising we dont lead the high life.
I have ruined my career we have no savings we get by.
I dont go have nails done or out for lunch.
I was on school pta, im peer supporter breastfeeding group @health clinic and on preschool commitee.
Preschools really struggling for numbers as people cant afford to fund it I have last terms bill to pay of £210 as its term after 3rd birthday which is jan but they couldent hold a place.
I learnt today that someone I know similar to me 3kids married,other half working sahm is getting tax credits, housing and her net income his salary and benefits is near enough my hubbys net take home pay and his gross is 41k.
Feel like tax credits is subsiding employers and making lower earners better off than middle high earners as their salaries are topped up more and then read oh well they need free 2year old place bit irksome not their fault as thats system we have but see it a lot.
I have 3kids and know some families with more than 3kids low wage who seem to have much more disposable income.
The systems so complex I cant work it out anymore.
so many changes I lose track.
just trying to work out how it affects us.
I cant wait to go back work im not sahm mum through choice more necessity,
It makes me want to do well this year in business plans as dont want to be reliant and at mercey of the governemnet whoevers in power but would like to see greater thourght, fairness applied and like to think yes we taxed to hilt but e get something back as at moment its robin hood rob peter to pay paul all it does is
put some people on middle incomes -in higher tax brackets
make the middle poorer
If the everage wage is 26k and ctc is being capped bow at 25k then only people under 25k will get tax credits.Also gone up from 16hours to 24 when employers cant give more hour whats happened to all the mums working 16hours have they lost it?
Makes me want to emigrate for sure. Its so depressing.