Im not even losing my benefit when first announced at conference they mentioned £42,000 figure hubbys 41 but we far from rich we get by.
True we chose for our kids to have hobbies and activities as they enjoy them and think its good for them as schools offer so little extra currcicular.
We cant afford private fees.
we try have 1 cheapish uk holiday a year and 2-3days out as hubby works retail he works 50+hours week no overtime. He works weekends, nearly every bank holiday, worked xmas eve and boxing day so family time is quite limited feel like single parent most weekends when other families are together.
In week sometimes he works long days so kids dont see him at all so both school runs, homework, tea and bedtimes all down to me.
Then when he gets home he has homecooked meal on table and fairly clean house.
Im not worlds best housewife we live in house we outgrown
3messy kids. I have jno grandparent help with kids.
My family over hour away, mil never leaves house and only wants to see 1 child a t a time.
middle child 3 gets free funding this month 15hours which will help
but since september paid 2terms of preschool
since shes 18months paid 1 day private nursery fees with vouchers as its been good fotr her educational development because shes sept born got extra year of childcare to fund and unsure when can afford to start her younger brother hes 2 in april.
We dont own our own home we pay private landlord.
no housing benefot
council tax is fair whack and utilities rising.
We need least 1 car but running car and petrol is high.
we realy are quite cautious these ays rarly go out.
we budget and meal plan but each month im tweaking things .
lower income freinds think we loaded but i would day 40-60k depending where you live and net not rich .
We bit the age bracket going on luxury cruioses or have maximum amounts in our isa. We sometimes dont out heating on as no allowance to fall back on we on our own.
I stayed up late last night watched this week on cbbc1 and janet street porter defended oaps.
All she kept saying was
they paid in all their lives-like anyone hos worked in past hasent.
They largest most engaged voting group.
That brown brought in many of these benefits which now too hard to take away
Yet this next generation of retirees be wealthiest in generations.
But their benefits remain in line with cpi and others rpi which is less.
Their benefits not capped-ringfenced rises
they get to keep winter fuel allowance no matter how rich they are or if they live in spain.
Because its too expensive to means test yet they can do same for cb.
same with free bus passes issued paid bus companies which some hold and hardly use.Sometimes I wasl miles ith toddler in tow as buses so pricey £3 to get from one end road
Free tv licence.
I guess they thourght we small %of electorate.
Not sure how many families will lose.
also the 4 parents on 49k keep theirs
More and more people being dragged until higher rate tax.
yesterday one pensioners minister warned 20-30 group that we may never retire we have no private pensions. probably work until 73 and we would have paid in too.
Im not sure ho to vote. I hate labour,
if I vote ukip then thats a vote for labour.
Going to write to my mp.
Sadly unless we start getting our voice accross then nothing get done,
How do families become as powerful as oaps,
we vote every election.
Those not effected by rises still getting their benefit wont care.
news kepts going on about how we just too wealthy and its only fair.
I know so many people working and non working living life on benefits and financially better off than us.
Today eldest cried as she wasent school dinners today as dident have money on me tuesday to pay for it.
The change is happening with cb nothing we can do.
But guess we can change out vote.
Problem is with media is they either very wealthy or have no one with kids to discuss the matter its like working families dont matter.
When they have families on tv its always the poorer ones. guess makes better veiwing.
If hubby were to hypotheitically quit his well paid job then state be screweed then.Not that he is but we striving and failing.
Until all groups treated fairly then we not all in this together.
new ssaid doubt he touch pensioners this side of election thats 2years away whilst families continue to struggle.
I wish i could pick labour shaow cabinet as whilst they have milliband and balls at top cant trust them.
I dont think ukip wil become 3rd party.
Lib dems have no power.