Achillea - thing is, not all SAHM's could look after other people's DC's. I have uncontrolled epilepsy. I have my own DC's, and my friends trust me with theirs, but would you want me looking after your DC's when you are at work? Or would you always be worrying that I might have a seizure whilst looking after your DC?
And some might not cope with other people's DC's, who they can't look after in the same way as they would their own.
Also, it would push low paid workers to have no choice in childcare, if they were expected to use SAHM's as childcare, they would have no choice but to 'hope for the best' using unqualified childcarers rather than anything else, as I can see that quite quickly in that situation, TC's help with nursery fees would be stopped, as why pay for a Nursery when you can dump them on your neighbour who doesn't work.
It would be something else to add to Workfare schemes too, well if you want your benefits, you have to look after other people's DC's. Would you want someone unqualified, who is ONLY doing it to keep their benefits, looking after YOUR DC's?
I can understand Bonsoir's point about hourly rates causing issues for the Nursery, I think with the system we have got, where most Nurseries and After-school care is privately run in the Country, and needing to make a profit, rather than being State-run and not-for profit, there IS no real solution other than to build more State-run Nurseries and After-school care. Maybe in school buildings, or purpose built buildings that run a Nursery all day, Before and After-school care and all-day care for school age DC's.
I also agree with previous posters who said that the cost of SEN childcare should be the same as standard childcare - it can cost double/triple the cost of standard childcare. And surely that is discrimination on the basis of disability?
And whoever said about extending childcare to 14 - yes. I wouldn't be happy about leaving a 11/12yo ALONE from 8am-6pm all day every day through the holidays. But that is what a lot of us are faced with, as there just isn't ANYTHING for Secondary aged DC's. It used to be that they would go to Granny's or other family member, now people live too far away, or in my case it's not SAFE to do that (Mother is an alcoholic), so we have no choice.