My usual post on the subject of splitting childcare costs between both parents even in the event of a relationship breakdown goes like this :
Childcare costs £300 a week. Under the current system, RP is responsible for all of that. If RP's income is low enough, they claim TC's to cover 70% of it, and they get the maximum £210 a week help with childcare. And they have to find the other £90 a week to cover the shortfall. Which for someone in a NMW job, is two days wages BEFORE tax & NI.
In MY version, this is what would happen :
RP is responsible for £150 of that £300. NRP is responsible for the other £150.
If RP's income is low enough, RP claims TC's to cover 70% of that £150, leaving RP to cover the remaining £45 a week. If NRP's income is low enough, NRP claims TC's to cover 70% of that £150, leaving NRP to cover the remaining £45 a week.
Tax Credits cost still £210, so no greater outlay, just halving the burden on the RP.
If RP's income is low enough, RP claims TC's to cover 70% of that £150, leaving RP to cover the remaining £45 a week. If NRP's income is too high to qualify for help from TC's, they cover their half of the childcare costs, paying £150. And this works the same vice versa if the RP's income is too high to qualify for help from TC's, but the NRP's income IS low enough to qualify for help from TC's.
Tax Credits cost now just £105, so halving the burden on the state, and putting it firmly back on the person who also holds financial responsibility towards that DC, its NRP/RP, whoever earns more.
If both the RP's and the NRP's incomes are too high to qualify for help from TC's, then they EACH pay £150, still halving the burden on the RP, who currently would have to pay the full £300.
Tax Credits cost nil due to each parents income.
Men want equal parenting, why not. But with equal parenting comes an equal responsibility for the COSTS of parenting, including childcare.