Radio 4's You and Yours programme have invited Mumsnet to join them on the 28th of December for a phone in on the strains placed on families at this time of year, and we need your input (promise not to mention any names...) 
So did the out-laws test your goodwill to destruction, or did you all grab a drink, pull a cracker and have a fun filled time with friends and family?
They're particularly interested in how Christmas might have changed as families get more complex. If you have divorced parents, or are divorced yourselves how do you decide who goes where for Xmas and what impact, if any does that have on the children - or on you?
If you're coping with an onslaught of invading relatives, or going "home" for Christmas - how do you keep calm and carry on when everyone's got their own ideas of how Christmas should be? Is it a day to be got through with gritted teeth or are there things you've learnt over the years that can help Christmas be a time of family peace and harmony? (please share if so and we can take notes for next year!)
And if there's someone missing from your Christmas because they've passed away, moved to another country, are expected to spend time with other people, or are just stuck in the snow - how did you cope with that?
All thoughts, ideas and insights welcome.
Big thanks and hope your Christmas is Very Merry and stress-free 
MNHQ