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Is this an acceptable wedding guest outfit?

37 replies

Bumbleebeetree · 21/06/2025 08:11

Or is it too close to white? Thank

Is this an acceptable wedding guest outfit?
OP posts:
SoScarletItWas · 21/06/2025 08:13

Absolutely fine. It’s got so much print that it doesn’t look like a white dress at all (not that I subscribe to the ‘no white at weddings’ thing; unless you are walking down the aisle in it nobody is going to mistake a guest for the bride).

CrackOnThen · 21/06/2025 08:16

It’s nothing like a wedding dress in style or colour.

party4you · 21/06/2025 08:16

I think it depends on the dress code, this seems really causal 😬

ColinCaterpillarsNo1Fan · 21/06/2025 08:22

I'd say it was too casual, more like a garden party/bbq dress.

Corinthiana · 21/06/2025 08:24

SoScarletItWas · 21/06/2025 08:13

Absolutely fine. It’s got so much print that it doesn’t look like a white dress at all (not that I subscribe to the ‘no white at weddings’ thing; unless you are walking down the aisle in it nobody is going to mistake a guest for the bride).

It's not about being "mistaken for the bride". I don't know why this is said every single time. It's just that white is the privilege of the bride,so it is courtesy to let her alone have that on her special day.

RampantIvy · 21/06/2025 08:24

party4you · 21/06/2025 08:16

I think it depends on the dress code, this seems really causal 😬

Erm, no it isn't.
Do you only go to terribly formal weddings with very strict dress codes?

Corinthiana · 21/06/2025 08:24

It's fine, OP. Always wise check, though 👍

Loubylie · 21/06/2025 08:25

Yes. Good choice.

party4you · 21/06/2025 08:26

RampantIvy · 21/06/2025 08:24

Erm, no it isn't.
Do you only go to terribly formal weddings with very strict dress codes?

It really is - another poster has said the same thing. Sorry that I try to put a bit of effort when I go to special occasions 🙄

rainbowstardrops · 21/06/2025 08:31

Corinthiana · 21/06/2025 08:24

It's not about being "mistaken for the bride". I don't know why this is said every single time. It's just that white is the privilege of the bride,so it is courtesy to let her alone have that on her special day.

What a load of shit! Privilege of wearing white?!

RampantIvy · 21/06/2025 08:38

party4you · 21/06/2025 08:26

It really is - another poster has said the same thing. Sorry that I try to put a bit of effort when I go to special occasions 🙄

You must both go to terribly formal weddings then. A dress like that would not have looked out of place at any wedding I have been to.

WeirdyBeardyMarrowBabyLady · 21/06/2025 08:40

Corinthiana · 21/06/2025 08:24

It's not about being "mistaken for the bride". I don't know why this is said every single time. It's just that white is the privilege of the bride,so it is courtesy to let her alone have that on her special day.

Are you confusing brides with the Pope?

Corinthiana · 21/06/2025 08:41

WeirdyBeardyMarrowBabyLady · 21/06/2025 08:40

Are you confusing brides with the Pope?

No need. Really, no need.

SoScarletItWas · 21/06/2025 08:57

Corinthiana · 21/06/2025 08:24

It's not about being "mistaken for the bride". I don't know why this is said every single time. It's just that white is the privilege of the bride,so it is courtesy to let her alone have that on her special day.

I can’t remember the last time I saw a bride in white, now I come to think of it. Red, purple, plenty of ivory/cream, and I got married in leopard print, so I wonder if that ‘privilege’ is on the way out anyway 🤔

Corinthiana · 21/06/2025 09:01

SoScarletItWas · 21/06/2025 08:57

I can’t remember the last time I saw a bride in white, now I come to think of it. Red, purple, plenty of ivory/cream, and I got married in leopard print, so I wonder if that ‘privilege’ is on the way out anyway 🤔

I do not know. This is a style thread, and specifically to garner opinions about the wedding guest choice, and the white issue. I think the OP is being very thoughtful about her choice of outfit, bearing in mind that it's still very common for the bride to wear white.
I haven't been to a wedding where the bride has worn other colours, and going by the windows of bridal shops etc, I would suggest it's still a dominant choice. So, it's wise of her to be reflective on this.
Edited to add, I would include ivory and cream as part of the "white" concerns.

Corinthiana · 21/06/2025 09:09

rainbowstardrops · 21/06/2025 08:31

What a load of shit! Privilege of wearing white?!

Ok. I thought this was about advice for weddings and style.
I'm off. No need for the rudeness.

Corinthiana · 21/06/2025 09:10

Good call, @MuddlerInLaw . The responses will be more positive, as well.

party4you · 21/06/2025 09:42

RampantIvy · 21/06/2025 08:38

You must both go to terribly formal weddings then. A dress like that would not have looked out of place at any wedding I have been to.

Or maybe you’ve just been quite underdressed or the weddings you’ve been to have been terribly casual. Others have agreed it’s casual for a wedding - why do you think I’m the outlier?

RampantIvy · 21/06/2025 11:46

party4you · 21/06/2025 09:42

Or maybe you’ve just been quite underdressed or the weddings you’ve been to have been terribly casual. Others have agreed it’s casual for a wedding - why do you think I’m the outlier?

Not underdressed, nor terribly casual, just fairly informal where the guests are made welcome and where there have been no unreasonable demands made of them.

Blondebrownorred · 21/06/2025 11:47

I think its too casual too.

ServusFidelis · 21/06/2025 11:50

I do not think it is too casual for a wedding. It's entirely appropriate.

TheCurious0range · 21/06/2025 11:50

I think it's nice OP , not too white and not too casual, assuming you wouldn't style it with a canvas tote and flip flops like the model. Much better than some of the coast chiffon specials so often recommended! It looks light and cool too

DeSoleil · 21/06/2025 13:04

It is very casual as already mentioned and more suited as an every day dress.

CrackOnThen · 21/06/2025 14:08

Corinthiana · 21/06/2025 08:24

It's not about being "mistaken for the bride". I don't know why this is said every single time. It's just that white is the privilege of the bride,so it is courtesy to let her alone have that on her special day.

That might be what you think but it’s not what I think. I think what you said is nonsense. And you think that what other people have said is nonsense.