I’m in my 40s and since my first few sexual experiences there’s always been some touching of the ‘back’ area. A little internally for foreplay. I’ve had six partners and they’ve all been into this. However, my most recent partner says that’s incredibly unusual and that whilst he’s happy to do it for me if I want that, he wouldn’t have suggested it and nor has it ever been something that happened in his previous relationships. Is my experience unusual?!
I really thought I was very normal in this way and that actually in not going the full way with penetration there and instead just fingers, that I was quite vanilla!