How many women enjoy anal?

[Ffanatic]

Silly question, I'm 33 and out of a relatively long term relationship. She was a bit of a fiend for it and hence I have acquired a taste. I am seeing someone new (nothing serious) and have been wondering whether to bring it up, how common is it?

Imagine you discovered that 9 out of 10 women enjoyed it, but your new girlfriend was the 1 in 10 who didn't. What difference would it make that the other 9 did?

No no and No

Plenty of women do enjoy it. But I wouldn’t be bringing it up early on in a relationship. Maybe a talk later down the line about sexual likes etc, and raise it then. Many women are a big no and you’ll obviously have to respect that.

Absolutely not for me. I think if guys were to experience for themselves what it is like (eg dildo) they would get a better perspective of why so many women do not like it. Be content with normal sex in a new relationship and save that conversation for when you know her much better. How will you feel if "no" is the answer?

Nope, tried it and not for me. Exit only from there for me!

@Ffanatic new relationship, better not to bring up anal until you’re both openly chatted about each others desires sexual preferences etc..it’s a subject that needs to be introduced into your relationship after you’re comfortable that your partner has maybe shown some signs it maybe possibility once you’ve consolidated your new relationship ✊🏿

@brunettemic it can be mutually enjoyable if done right…like I say mutually 👍🏿

I’d have to really, really like someone to try it for them.

My partner enjoys it but it's not something we do regularly, nor is it overtly important to our sexlife. It something which happens spontaneously during sex. Nice when it happens but sex is lovely without it too.

My OH enjoys it much more than me. We do have anal sex sometimes because I love him and his pleasure is important to me. I don’t mind it and use a vibrator on myself to enjoy it more. I wouldn’t personally ever chose it over normal sex though.

if he’d asked about it in the early stages of dating I would have walked away. It needs to be part of a fully trusting relationship imho

Never tried it, never would, gross

If anyone suggested it, I would bin them off

You say that as if I haven’t tried it and don’t know what I’m talking about. Super helpful response 🙄

I sometimes feel I’m a bit of a sexual anomaly in that I cum harder and more frequently from anal as apposed to PIV. Hubby loves anal so it’s become a normal part of our sex life, start with PIV and finish with anal most times we have sex. Strangely enough it was me that brought it up in our relationship, it was the early days of us having sex we were waiting for the birth control to kick in, we didn’t have any condoms, something came over me and I asked if he wanted to try anal( I had never done it before). His face lit up! And as they say the rest is history.

I only enjoy anal completely lubed up. It doesn't do anything for me sexually but having a man spit on my hole and lick before inserting his cock in me gets me fired up

I only enjoy it when I use a vibe at the same time, a woman is very unlikely to orgasm out of it without other forms of stimulation. You can bring it up if you feel like you’re both open with each other but not in the heat of the moment.

Most (not all) women would be put off by a man asking about anal early on in a new relationship. There needs to be trust, including trust that she can say no to something and you won't pressure or take offence. Have conversations about what you enjoy but don't jump straight in with do you like anal... it reminds me of this https://www.instagram.com/reel/DIjMOVwO96e/?igsh=cjFjY2I2Z3RrMHlq

😂

Like other things in life I find it more rewarding to give than to receive,
Adore men’s reaction when I make that clear x

Nope it's gross

NO, I didn't when I once had a partner do it, it was painful, weird,never again

Silly question back, how would you feel if she asked to peg you?

So you’d dump an otherwise great guy who you’d fallen for and had an amazing relationship with for merely suggesting the possibility of anal?

I don’t believe you. You’d just say no, you really don’t want to do that, and I’d be accepted that, you’d continue.

You’d have to be insane and toxic in equal measure to dump someone in those circumstances, and doomed to be permanently alone if any suggestion by a partner of doing something you didn’t like was met by you abruptly terminating the relationship.

Maybe she meant like the link @AltitudeCheck posted!

Yes, it sounds a bit of an overreaction to dump someone for suggesting something like anal sex. It's not that risqué these days anyway.

My first wife didn't like it. My second likes it, but only occasionally when she's in the mood.

I dont love it, but will do it for a guy if he is willing to do something uncomrfutale for me