NCd for this for obvious reasons.
I’ve always been curious about whether everyone’s orgasms feel the same. I see and hear about women who absolutely scream the house down when they come, or shake all over etc. I do neither of those things (in fact when I’m alone I am often completely silent). So are the screamers and shakers experiencing something I’m not?
At the same time, mine differ too. Some are noticeably better than others, and I can’t figure out why. But even my best ones don’t make me scream.
So my question is, can you describe yours? I’m interested in men and women. I’ve always wondered if men’s and women’s feel the same as well. I’ve never been sure in my head whether I think they would! I’d love to feel what it’s like to ejaculate, but I wonder if I have without realising because men’s and women’s are the same!
I’ll go first, since I’m asking:
The build up feels like a tingle in my genitals, with the centre being my clitoris. My whole body feels lovely but there’s an urge to carry on doing the thing that’s making me feel nice. At some point there is then a noticeable increase in pleasure that lasts for a few seconds and is the last opportunity for me to stop. But I never do. Instead I want the stimulation to get faster.
Next comes the orgasm itself. This is what I can only describe as an explosion of pleasure from my clitoris that sends a wave of tingling joy over my whole body. I can feel it travelling quickly up through my chest and down my legs. It is the most intense pleasure i feel doing anything ever. Like scratching an itch in the most satisfying way. It is so strong that I sometimes want to gasp (but I can resist this urge and be silent. I never want to scream).
This lasts for a few seconds and is accompanied by contractions in my vagina that are involuntary. They fade along with the pleasure, and my body relaxes. I then feel calm and often sleepy. All sexual desire leaves me. If I’m masturbating I sometimes like to squeeze my hand up against my genitals to try and sort of squeeze out a last bit of nice feeling.
And that’s it. After 30 secs or so I’m completely back to normal!
When I say that some of mine are different it’s the intensity of the pleasure that differs. Some are noticeably less wonderful than the best. A few disappointing ones are barely pleasurable at all. But nine times out of ten it is heaven.
Is that the same for everyone else?!