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To just not want to swallow?

64 replies

Locomom · 25/04/2025 15:45

So just as the title says really…. Am I literally the only person who doesn’t swallow? My DH is obsessed with the idea, we’ve been together 20 years, and I’ve tried it many times each time thinking i’ll do it but I just can’t. Il gag, choke almost throw up etc. Note, I would always ‘take’ it in the mouth but would generally always spit.
I don’t like the consistency, the temperature, taste (although not bad tasting as such) and the fact I think that I can’t control when it happens or speed, volume etc… am I overthinking or is it not just not possible to accept that it’s simply not for me??DH keeps sending me videos saying ‘like this’ etc and each time I just say, just not for me etc…. I’d never keep on at him about doing something sexually if I knew it just wasn’t for him, what’s the story here?!!!

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Gymbunny2025 · 02/05/2025 20:52

StarlightLady · 02/05/2025 20:51

Prescription: Regular intake of strawberries, pineapple, blueberries and cranberry juice.

Ha ha exactly! Plus cut out alcohol and caffeine and keep well hydrated

AnonAnonmystery · 02/05/2025 21:01

StarlightLady · 02/05/2025 20:51

Prescription: Regular intake of strawberries, pineapple, blueberries and cranberry juice.

This maybe a game changer for my dp and he doesn’t know it yet…he eats blueberries and pinapple daily so I’ll give it a try. Think he’s oblivious to the fact he’s flavouring his “juice”.

StarlightLady · 02/05/2025 21:01

Gymbunny2025 · 02/05/2025 20:52

Ha ha exactly! Plus cut out alcohol and caffeine and keep well hydrated

And cigarettes. Also avoid asparagus!

thisismynewnamefornow · 02/05/2025 21:39

The extremes from delicious to disgust are quite something 😄

BackGammon3 · 03/05/2025 08:19

StarlightLady · 02/05/2025 20:51

Prescription: Regular intake of strawberries, pineapple, blueberries and cranberry juice.

Thanks for the advice, perhaps i need to hit the innocent smoothie berry mix at the supermarket later today! I wonder how long it will take to make a (if any) difference….

StarlightLady · 03/05/2025 09:07

BackGammon3 · 03/05/2025 08:19

Thanks for the advice, perhaps i need to hit the innocent smoothie berry mix at the supermarket later today! I wonder how long it will take to make a (if any) difference….

More or less daily input required. Healthy taste, healthy lifestyle. No idea how long it would take to kick in, probably depends on current diet, but guarantee there will be a big change.

Gymbunny2025 · 03/05/2025 09:12

Let us know how it goes @BackGammon3 🍍🍓

3luckystars · 03/05/2025 12:49

Yes please, and thanks very much for running a live experiment for us.

SamkaSabrinka · 03/05/2025 21:24

Locomom · 25/04/2025 15:45

So just as the title says really…. Am I literally the only person who doesn’t swallow? My DH is obsessed with the idea, we’ve been together 20 years, and I’ve tried it many times each time thinking i’ll do it but I just can’t. Il gag, choke almost throw up etc. Note, I would always ‘take’ it in the mouth but would generally always spit.
I don’t like the consistency, the temperature, taste (although not bad tasting as such) and the fact I think that I can’t control when it happens or speed, volume etc… am I overthinking or is it not just not possible to accept that it’s simply not for me??DH keeps sending me videos saying ‘like this’ etc and each time I just say, just not for me etc…. I’d never keep on at him about doing something sexually if I knew it just wasn’t for him, what’s the story here?!!!

well if you just swallow it then actually you don't have much time and barely register (if at all) temperature, taste, pressure, speed etc. (This is sounding like some kind of heating/plumbing report haha).

You don't notice any of that. You just nicely swallow and hey presto.

Also in my experience it's really good and healty for you.

BackGammon3 · 04/05/2025 15:04

Gymbunny2025 · 03/05/2025 09:12

Let us know how it goes @BackGammon3 🍍🍓

Wife said she won’t play ball. Shame cos i’ve just bought an Innocent Fruit smoothy multipack 😂

She says my semen smell/tastes bad, which is fair enough if true for her but doesn’t make me feel great, and i’ve never had any complaints before (ok, once...). I think tbh she just really doesn’t like semen. Fair enough.

Gymbunny2025 · 04/05/2025 15:09

BackGammon3 · 04/05/2025 15:04

Wife said she won’t play ball. Shame cos i’ve just bought an Innocent Fruit smoothy multipack 😂

She says my semen smell/tastes bad, which is fair enough if true for her but doesn’t make me feel great, and i’ve never had any complaints before (ok, once...). I think tbh she just really doesn’t like semen. Fair enough.

I was wondering if you’d have to taste your own… 😂

if she says it smells bad- that’s quite a strong reaction though. Could she have a point?

BackGammon3 · 04/05/2025 15:23

Gymbunny2025 · 04/05/2025 15:09

I was wondering if you’d have to taste your own… 😂

if she says it smells bad- that’s quite a strong reaction though. Could she have a point?

Haha i’m not doing that lol.

To be candid, when she has commented on smell (after the act, not literally complaining in the moment!) it is the times when i’ve ejaculated over her face (infrequently do this, it’s my request which she sometimes accomodates) or over her breasts, and clean up hasn’t been immediate. It smells bleachy to me so i don’t really blame her, just a shame really that it’s not the act that’s the issue….. just me apparently.

sowemeetagainbananaman · 04/05/2025 17:18

AnonAnonmystery · 25/04/2025 16:11

You’re not the only one!
Happy for my partner to finish in my mouth as find it quite a turn on but I usually have tissues or a glass of water I can spit into it. My partner has never mentioned it tbh.

See, I’m the opposite.

I don’t like it in my mouth at all, but on the occasions it has been, I’ve swallowed it, because it seems as quick a way as any of getting rid.

but I don’t have it in my mouth at all these days.

it’s just not for me and that’s fine. I don’t like the taste.

everyone is different.

OP, I’d be really annoyed about the videos saying “like this”. Tell him to wrap that on the head.

Truthbetolddd · 04/05/2025 20:45

For any new guy I get with I can’t get enough of swallowing or a ONS for instance I always would. But deffo as time goes on with any man I been with I do it less and less.

I must admit taking it in the mouth is absolutely fine I pretty much always will. And I do love the feeling if a guy pulses whilst he is doing it that is a real turn on.
Also to then spit it out and watch it run down his shaft and my hands and then lick it up with my tongue is a real kink of mine. Plus I get away with not having to swallow then lol.

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