When to divulge a fantasy to a new partner

[SaraSunny]

I have a relatively new Partner. Just a couple of months in.

He's a great guy but I can only say the sex is OK. Not mind blowing.

I already know that I'm a lot more adventurous than him.

At what stage would you divulge what you really like or what you fantasise about?

I feel a lot better about it today. I just hope I don't live to regret it as he was a good match in every other way.

@brunettemic many walls have to be been broken to find those hidden pleasures😉 …keep on flying beau ✊🏿

I’ve never actually broken a wall…yet 😉 give it time haha!

I’ve never broken a wall either. But l have broken a headboard. Maybe l’m in training 😀?

It’s the next logical step!

Both breakages now added to my wish list! 😁

@brunettemic let the neighbours know and enjoy your passion😉

@StarlightLady ..breaking the headboard…how much of a turn on was it ✊🏿

@SaraSunny may sure your man works up real passion foryou ✊🏿

I hope I'm not going to get negative comments but I am missing him - not the sex - more the company, chats, little jokey comments that exchange in a relationship.

I know and understand that he was never going to blindfold and tease me but I am missing the good parts of the relationship.

I can't believe how perfect he was - apart from the sex.

It sounds like you probably aren’t the first (or last) woman to feel that way about him. What a waste of a good man! I’m sure someone better is just around the corner

It's so frustrating! In every sense!

No reason you can’t be friends with him if he’s good company. Just that he didn’t come up to standard in one aspect of being a partner!

Hi, you miss him…no you miss a person you can connect to whop,eases you in all aspects ..be patient and you will find that person…at moment like you say he’s fine except for the sex? That will not go away from yiur mind..you will nvr enjoy sex with him if it happens…time to move on✊🏿

He doesn't like to give or receive oral!!!!??? say good bye to him or you'll be very frustrated.

If the sex is only OKAY then he obviously has a lower sex drive compared to you and probably doesn't have or think of fantasies. Not everyone has a fantasy. Sex and sexual fantasies play a big part of your life. Maybe find another guy?

He ended the relationship so yes!

@SaraSunny im sensing your desires and fantasies are intense and running wild…..how often do you think about them S✊🏿

Every day!

@SaraSunny no matter wht your friends etc may say … you are like me.. we say we can deal with it… but you and I knw the truth is we need it, its like an addiction! Self relieving is short term solution the urges soon come bk 😉

??? what my friends may say?