Do other women like receiving dick pics???

[SunshineShowers543566]

Recently single and new to the dating scene. What is up with blokes sending dick pics??? This was definitely not a thing when I was younger!! It grosses me out in fact I find it disgusting. A good way of sorting the wheat from the chaff so to speak, but wtf though??? I don't think I'd be alone in this view but does anyone actually like being sent them?? The mind boggles

I enjoy them if I like the guy. Otherwise...not so much!

That's really interesting

I've never thought of genitals as attractive - either male or female
Even if it's someone I'm really into

I usually will pump myself up and send a pic of my boxers but ONLY if they ask .

I will rarely if ever send a full dick pic as a) they aren’t that pretty and b) there’s got to be something to look forward to!

I like it but after a convo about it or if its implied, surprise ones not so much.

Men love seeing women's genitals so presumably assume we like seeing theirs. Which we sort of do I suppose. But some men just don't seem to get that while we love sex as much as they do, we generally need to get comfortable with a man first.

Dick pics weren't a thing when I was dating. I had my fair share of pushy overly familiar men irl though. I suppose deleting a dick pic and blocking someone is actually preferable to having to remove a creep's hand from your bum or push him away when he tries to kiss you

Had my fair share of unsolicited pics

but sometimes I accept them if the mood is right

I have never received a dick pic, so I don't know what that says about me! Sending an unsolicited dick pic is actually a criminal offence now.

I've just never looked at a penis and thought it looked nice or attractive. Even if I was very attracted to the man himself. Now I'm wondering whether I'm odd.

If it was part of a sexual conversation and I fancied the person, I liked seeing a picture. I'm talking about when I was dating before I got married. It's only good for me if it's part of that kind of scenario. I've been randomly sent them completely out the blue and that's not good. I can see how a dick pic is offensive to some but for me it just makes me think they are only after sex and I wouldn't continue talking to someone that did that. Genitals aren't the most attractive but it depends on the context.

There's definitely some penises that look nicer than others but it depends on who it belongs to too. That's just my view.

Exactly. Some are very nice & some are not

to the person saying none look nice this doesn’t make them weird. I can understand why some women think all are unattractive

I've actually never received one 😅

@Kerkyra2024

There you go...

@Kerkyra2024

Damn autocorrect - I meant dick not duck...

An unsolicited DP is no different to flashing. It's an aggressive act and is now a crime.

DP from someone I'm in a sexual relationship with are very welcome though! Some really are beautiful and very very sexy

Nope!

Absolutely I do if they look nice. If they are ugly for whatever reason then I just delete them and that’s that. That being said I can only recall a literal few times that I’ve wanted to meet someone just based on seeing a dick pic before I met them lol.

Absolutely not. There are some parts of the male anatomy which serve a purpose, but aren’t necessarily pretty. I have absolutely zero interest in looking at photos of them, no matter how fit the guy is. Men need to take a fucking hint….send us pictures of your 6-packs, and we’ll swoon and be impressed. Dicks? No.

I find that really interesting. For me I’m not one who is so bothered about a six pack. Don’t get me wrong it could be the nicest looking dick in the world but he still has to know how to use it. When I was younger I thought I liked a man with muscles and a six pack but I think as I’ve got older it’s not really a thing I desire.

I don't mind them but then I'm looking for a fwb and I have limited free time so i prefer to see if they are worth the effort of continuing a conversation so to speak. However unsolicited dick pics are now a criminal offence (and rightly so) and I don't hesitate to inform the sender of this before blocking them and reporting them to the site.
I usually ask upfront - not as a conversation starter obviously! But not after weeks of chat either. Anyone who sends one as a first message, no matter how delicious it may look, get told blocked and reported. I have quite the collection now 😂

Love that. Please share the collection looool 😂

Lol no sorry, not without permission from the senders anyway as I'd be a total hypocrite and a criminal myself. If you go on fabswingers you'll certainly get yourself a collection in no time! It's not all kinks and swinging its regular hookups, fwb site as well

Haha obvs that was a joke. I have a huge collection too lol.

Initially, I thought it was bad. I had a blanket rejection of the whole practice. But now I don't. If it's done in the right spirit and with respect.

There is the odd guy who will just effectively wham it in your face whether you want it or not. Of course that is not good.

But there are many guys who, after a connection and proper bit of conversation, ask if they can because they just want to share it with you. And then suddenly it starts feeling like a privilege of some sort, I respect it, and I know I have a choice.

When you think about it, if you are having an openly sexual conversation with a guy, and it is having a noticeable effect on him (...), then it kind of makes sense that it is a very obvious and tangible part of his arousal, and if he feels close to you then he's going to want to share it probably.

So my opinion is:

Unsolicited - no.
Offered after a connection - acceptable.

The inexperienced perspective is that this is some kind of flashing. But once you experience the depth of a mutually sexually arousing/comforting virtual relationship, when you are in that zone then it isn't flashing at all. I mean, if you're having sex with a guy, you would expect to see his dick, wouldn't you?!

Doh! Apologies I really should be asleep and not scrolling on here so my brain isn't anywhere near 100% working capacity lol

If only I had something else to look at on my phone to help me relax so I can sleep.....😂