Male pubic hair

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I’ve not long got a new partner after a few years of being single and see things moving into the bedroom soon with her. Just wondering what’s the thoughts of pubic hair on a man ?

thanks 😊

My thoughts are you can do what you want with your own body.

A very difficult question to answer, everyone will be different. I tend to prefer women with neatly trimmed pubic hair, DW prefers me with nothing, but we both do what we want with our own.

Altho I have my preferences, any woman I slept with could do what they wanted with their own hair.

You can do what you feel most comfortable with, and a woman will either like it or not 😀

I keep it short and trimmed most of the time and but I regularly shave it off as well.

I prefer the woman with nothing when I want to go down on her.

My thoughts are trimmed short/ shaved is best for giving blow jobs. But it doesn’t matter what I think! Chat it over with her, keep in mind your preference for your body, hopefully they are aligned!

I’m always trimmed anyway. Just wasn’t sure going bald for blow jobs

I like it but I wouldn’t mind either way when it came down to it. I do generally prefer hair on men, even for oral sex it doesn’t bother me at all. Just shows how different we are.

Yeah we are all different. Just it’s been a while since I’ve been with someone. I’ll keep it nice and trimmed then lol

I actually don’t mind if she’s got hair or not. If anything I like hair on a woman more

I prefer hair on a man. Each to their own but I think it's odd seeing a man completely smooth down there, especially if they are big and muscular. I don't mean really wild and bushy but my preference would be at least some hair. I like when it trails down from their belly button.

My preference is either extremely short or smooth. My DH ended up growing his due to a medical procedure so I found it really strange seeing him hairy. Must admit, I was really happy when he was able to shave and he removed it all. He did comment that he found it a lot more sensitive being smooth from having being hairy so said he will prob stay like that.

I don't think many women will mind you being bare. More likely prefer that than being really hairy

Thanks for your message. I’ll keep it short atm and maybe go bald eventually. Thanks again

See I wouldn’t like this - I don’t like completely hairless; I’d find it weird.

You can’t go wrong with a trim OP, and take it from there. You can always grow it back or hack it all off later 😂

Good luck!

Shaved men apparently look bigger, so guess DW would prefer shaved, seriously though do what you want and feel comfortable with

Completely shaved/bare would be a complete turn off for me. Think I’d have to stop if I discovered that!! Best to ask her in advance

Interesting thread, this! A lot of women prefer the manscape option now, at least in the media. I reckon It's only fair that us blokes pull our weight and manscape if preferable, given the lengths a lot of women have to go to achieve some idealised form of pubic perfection. Best to ask partner ultimately. Glad to see a lot of variation here in what you all prefer!

Not a chance I would ask a partner, new or otherwise their preference for the way I have my pubic hair.

I think you need to ask your new partner, if you need to ask anyone. I didn't think I would like my ex-DP without pubic hair until he shaved it all off one day. He didn't ask me about it, he just did it and I actually loved him being bald.

Who cares what she thinks? Have some confidence and do what you want.

Full bush. Anything else feels...weird and vain/porny.

in the media? How are you aware of this? Don't recall any revered male beeb presenters weighing in on this.
As for "pulling weight", are you some form of "nice boy"?
surely it's up to the individual - no pressure that I am aware of to follow some sort of norm/holy guru of rightness on this issue.
Declaration - male - won't be "pulling my weight" - have known women with various views on the matter - some scathing - so happy to go my own way. Don't imagine it will do me any harm, no more than me trying to put pressure on a woman for going one way or the other.

@Offwiththecircus , Manscape is everywhere, big pressence on a lot of podcasts I listen too as well as youtube. Far from a boy, touching 40 in 3 years. Not remotely saying that everyone should go down the Manscape route, It's just popular these days, and a bit of a trend now for blokes. I'm personally in favour of growing It out, particularly in the winter, but manscaping if/when required. Never nice to grow out the full bush, particularly if you're expecting a good time in the bedroom!

So much positioning/theorising around pubic hair. My ex DP never knew me with pubic hair, I never liked it on me so have always removed it, shaving and now waxing. Simple decision, no theorising etc. My ex did it to see how it felt, he liked it and I loved it, so he stayed that way. Again, no theorising etc. We're both still hairless, simple preferences.

Personally I like a man to be stereotypically "manly" so would prefer trimmed but still definitely there. Bald would weird me out. Same with skinny jeans and pointy shoes though, big no from me!

Do what you feel comfy with. If you want to see what it looks like bald then shave it off. Worst case is you and she hate it and it grows back in a few weeks.

Personally I always trimmed with occasional shaving of the full area. DW said she didn't mind either. Shaving is awkward though and it grows back feeling sharp. Over the past few years I've been getting full waxes from the thighs to neck as this is what I prefer. Word of warning though certain areas hurt like hell!

I had a conversation with the beautician who I go to as she waxes women and men. She reckons a lot of her clients think it's long over due that men have started grooming.