Where can an unhappily married woman get sex without having an affair?

[PhryneFisher]

I’ve posted before, I’m in a sexless, pretty much loveless (from my perspective) marriage, but at the moment, I have lots of things going on and don’t want the stress of a separation/divorce on top of it all.
But my husband is far too lazy to ever bother with sex, whereas I am highly sexed and want it regularly.
I also want to go with a woman at least once but not a threesome,
Is anyone in a similar boat and can recommend a way for me to get what I want without having an affair (because I can’t be bothered with all the sneaking about), or being murdered by a stranger?

if you’ve done similar, how did you do it and how did it work out for you?

@ArcticSkewer your post started

There's a lot more choice for women on IE than men.

I was trying to refute that, I found there was plenty of choice for men. ( this man at least)

Oh I see. A lot of men on there complain, that's all. You probably don't get to talk to them on there. It's definitely harder for men than women - create a female profile and see how many offers you get within minutes if not hours and compare.

But it's perfectly possible for a man to meet a reasonable selection of women. Not too sure about the quality of some of them but at least it's discreet. If op scrubs up nicely she won't find it hard to find what she wants there.

Oh okay, I had no issues ( personally), the chat forum was certainly populated by some pretty horrible women who went out of their way to be nasty to men

but I met some nice women pretty fast and was having good sex pretty quick in both short and longer term relationships

Try FEELD
be very honest about what you need

but seriously it’s going to be an affair

you can’t polish a turd 💩

sorry !

Not sure if you are talking about me, but I am genuine, and I am a woman.
I have name changed on here a couple of times, partly because I know quite a few people IRL who have referred to these forums a few times. So if I’m posting about something that potentially could embarrass me I use a different one to the name they think I use.

In terms of DMs, I think I’m on about 13…I obviously haven’t responded to any though.

intimacy matters , Dinner and Decadence

Your Welcome 🙂

I think you have to ask yourself if you are willing to betray your husband behind his back. It would be a lot of guilt to carry for someone. It’s also a risk for a woman to meet a lone male. If you want more sex and you want to experience sex with another woman then leaving your husband is the right thing to do or see if you can improve your own sex life together.

@PhryneFisher it's a really tough one because ultimately if you are in a relationship/ married, it would be classed as cheating. I do understand your thoughts though. I have the same thoughts often. I'm glad I came across this post to know I'm not alone in thinking this way. I think it's fine to have these thoughts as long as you are always honest with yourself and your partner with regards to what you are thinking and feeling and considering your partners feelings. X

13 is fewer than expected!