What is it men like about anal over vaginal sex?

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Genuine question.
As I am not a man I’d like to know, when a man has a desire to try anal with a girl what is it about it they like the idea about?
is it because it will be tighter?
is it because it seems kinkier?
or another reason?

I’ve tried it with an ex partner at his request but I didn’t like it, it just made me feel like I needed a poo.

I was the one to suggest it in our relationship, we had only been going out for a a couple of months at the time. I didn’t love it initially but my husband thought all his Christmases had come at once, over the years I have grown to love it. We now do anal almost every time we have sex (around 5 times per week). We start with PIV and finish with anal. I cum so hard from anal, far better than PIV.

My husband is 100% straight but also enjoys being pegged or receiving a prostate massage.

I know I’m in the absolute minority as a woman who loves anal, but as they say different strokes for different folks.

>>I know I’m in the absolute minority as a woman who loves anal
i wouldn't assume that, or not a tiny minority.
maybe been listening to too many on mnet?

Fascinating thread. Appreciate it is an old one

My partner (Mr Bean mark 2, honestly that sort of character) prefers this over PIV, hiding erection problems (?)

I have asked if he had ever had feelings for same sex - no

His a strange fetish to farting over porn so it came as no real surprise.

id just like to add one thing that’s not been mentioned by any other males so maybe it’s just me.

in my younger years it never appealed in the slightest, a exgf back then kept asking for it but I was against it until I gave in, we tried it and done it quite often after the first time.

The tightness perception, yes it’s tighter around the entrance but after that there’s no tightness at all, not like a vagina, from that point of view I’d take PIV every time.

What I did enjoy (partner specific) was using a toy at the same time and seeing my partners reaction, that was a plus.

Overall though, I really don’t see the fascination and it only happens if it’s requested by my partner.

I like doing it to a guy, makes me feel powerful lol

Never done it or had it done, but DW has occasionally got close to inserting a finger, as the prostate gland is there and stimulating that is supposed to be on another level, I wouldn’t say no, having anal with a woman would have to be something she suggested

Can’t see the attraction myself. You’re only centimetres away from the real thing!

As a man it’s not for me, i have done it on request but i’m not sure whether it was because she wanted it or because she thought i’d want it, it’s tight granted but for me personally it feels dirty and i wouldn’t want to put it back inside her afterwards due to infections and the fact i like to eat out.

Thank you. I’d asked my partner if they had experienced sex toy’s and just got a blunt no.

There is definitely a love of flatuance.

I also hope that largely the real male population aren’t into it.

Tried it a few times but always been too painful to go through (and hubby is avg size). However have bought a few smaller but plugs and I cum so much harder when it is in.

It is very tight so feels like screwing a virgin.

I think there's a thing called a feeldoe. Google at your peril...

I was quite fascinated by the idea of anal sex when I was younger, because it seemed so taboo.

Then I tried it and I found that, physically, it doesn't feel that different, there's a significant risk of 'mess', the naughtiness factor wears off pretty quickly. So now, I'm not against it but wouldn't suggest it unless I thought my partner was particularly keen.

I do like my own bum being played with. Lots on nerve endings there and a small butt plug up the jacksie at the time of orgasm seriously enhances orgasms. I'm not at all interested in sex with other men

I think it's a personal choice. I know of gay men who don't indulge and prefer mutual masturbation and oral rather than anal. I also know of gay women who like it and indulge in anal as well as DP.

Exactly this, it amazes me if there is ever talk of men enjoying anal themselves on here the amount of comments claiming they must be bi or are most likely gay.

I think for my husband it was the naughtiness of it. For me it’s due to when my clit is bein aroused I feel open and just grab his cock and put the tip in whist I orgasm.

You cannot hide an erection problem anal sex , if anything you need a better erection

male in a new relationship, will female partner will sometimes ask for anal - so we do it at her request- personally I think I prefer PIV , she also seems to like having a butt plug in during PIV sex

Fascinated as it is wrong/naughty/taboo. Like being in a porn film! The thought of it is amazing. In practise its not amazing and not as good IMO as normal sex

From my male perspective, I think it's the naughtiness - the psychological thrill of doing something so "wrong". That said, I'm not particularly bothered about anal sex. I can't imagine having anything the size of even my modest penis up my bum without it being very painful, so I wouldn't expect a woman to accommodate it, unless it was something she was into. I do love anal play though. The sensation of having a finger up there is very enjoyable both physically and psychologically. Equally, feeling a woman's tight anus around my fingertip is a massive thrill. I wouldn't want to be without that in a relationship.

Don’t know, don’t care. Whatever they think they’ll get, it won’t be from me. 😉

After we tried it DP said he didn't really enjoy it, but I guess we wanted to tick it off the must try list. Not something I would do on a regular basis

I have had anal sex a few times with my partner. Previous partners have wanted to but their pestering always put me off.

for me it’s the sordid nature, I find it a real turn on. And then combined with a girthy vibrator I have massive orgasms when he does it.

...and that's how you start a weekend!