What is it men like about anal over vaginal sex?

[ThePinkQualityStreet]

Genuine question.
As I am not a man I’d like to know, when a man has a desire to try anal with a girl what is it about it they like the idea about?
is it because it will be tighter?
is it because it seems kinkier?
or another reason?

I've no idea - I'm a man and it's not my bag. Porn to an extent I guess and naughtiness?

Would you eat the same dinner everyday, when you do something one way, an other way becomes exciting

For me its the naughtiness factor, but then I like it done to me too.

All those things really - but the last person I had anal sex with was at her suggestion not mine - so I guess you also need to be asking women 🤷🏼

But I don't like it over vaginal sex. For me its a once in a while thing, and like PP, I have only really done it when the female has suggested it.

It just happens when we are both naughty. It is different, tight, she likes it a lot. We only do it a few times a year I guess. Its not better then PIV just a different thing.
An yes, I like it in the ass myself from a time to time 😉

Ok that’s interesting that two of you have said you like it in yours also.
so you mind me asking- and I don’t mean to offend. Are you completely straight?
I am naive. I always assumed men who would take it there would be gay.
but there’s a chance someone I’m seeing might want that.
so if you are willing to answer that- what do you like about it? (If it’s only from a woman)
and what using? A strap on?

I'm also a fan of receiving.

I never tend to suggest to my wife we have anal, if she wants it she asks for it. I enjoy it because its naughty and feels kinky. She enjoys the feeling of me being inside there.

I wouldnt class myself as gay, I have bi tendencies but its just a label and why shouldn't men enjoy it with a woman penetrating them.

We started off with smaller toys but have now progressed on to different sizes of strap ons. Its not an every day occurance still most often is PIV but its usually a fortnightly or monthly treat for me

I think you are mixing up sexual attraction and sexual enjoyment, I would consider myself “straight”, I’m not attracted to men, but that being said, I enjoy a finger up my bum during oral sex ( performed by a woman), the anus is full of nerve endings and it heightens the enjoyment immensely, I have thought about pegging, but just a thought so far.

If one is a man who enjoys being anally penetrated by other men, then one is gay. If one enjoys being anally penetrated by women, then one is straight. Sexuality is not defined by the act, but by who one does it with.

I have always identified as straight and for me it is very much the appeal of the woman doing it, however as I have got older I have definitely become curious, but I dont honestly think it is linked.

Thank you for your replies.
I appreciate it.

As a woman, it is all about naughtiness (and of course pleasure from that). I had never even imagined trying it as I think we are conditioned as women to be “good”. Then a man I was seeing and getting very comfortable with in bed (I’m not a swinging from the Chandeliers type) had his finger go a little further south when he was playing with me and wow, I suddenly thought how nice it was being touched there. That developed to him slipping his finger in slightly and gently. Ultimately after a few sessions of including that in sex I asked if he would try it with me.

it isn’t a regular thing at all, more occasional treat when really in the (naughty) mood

Anal sex started along time before porn which suggests another reason: pleasure?

I have always like anal play, started reading and experimenting as a teenager. My favorite is a prostage massage then getting a BJ. We also have a dildo that is not strapped, only held by her vagina. She really likes that toy, she then has the power and the toy does a lot for her clit and g-spot. Everyone should try this 😉
I enjoy the feeling of someone else in power, also these sensations are great.
Am I gay? I never fancy men but I have been with men to test it. I liked what they did to me, a lot. I don’t get anything from doing somethig to other men… I don’t know what that makes me, bi-courius? 10% gay? I don’t care. We are all different and maybe I’m just not afrait to try things and enjoy.

Regarding the guy you are seeing, just try some anal play on him. First just massage the area a bit when he is very aroused, nothing more. Everyone has all these nerve endings there… it’s a waste not to use these 🙂 Same goes for the guys, you should go a little closer to that area next time you are giving a massage… when someone is very aroused, massaging around the opening is so good. Don’t have to go in.

@Sens what's this dildo you speak of. Asking for a friend

@bombemma look for strapless dildos. Can’t remember the name of ours but they look the same. Just make sure it rests on your clit and has a part that goes in your vagina. And choose a small one, the big ones are more suitable for vaginas.
And tell us how this goes 🤪

have you asked this question before? sounds kind of familiar?

Lovehoney lux posable strapless silicone vibrator is one of the ones. Definitely recommend

I'm the male sub in a very loving domme sub partnership. She absolutely loves pegging me with increasing large dildos which she does with furious abandon.

But she does request we switch round on occasions and I'll penetrated her anally. From a sensation perspective, it's very different to vaginal sex which is far more pleasurable. The sphincter is a tight band of muscle and once I'm through and into the rectal cavity, you can't feel anything there. It's the kink factor which is the draw.

I very much disagree with the person who said one is gay because you might enjoy the sensation of a penis inside your anus. I do; I'm sure a really nice feeling. But I'm not remotely attracted to men.

As a woman I quite like it as it feels naughty, and I enjoy it. I’d assume men like it as it’s tighter

Not preferred to PIV but a really enjoyable occasional alternative when we're both in the mood. It offers a different kind of intimacy. We mainly do it in the spoons position when we're both really relaxed and I can massage her neck, back and feet at the same time. Attempting a sideways kiss is kind of fun too! A big part of the turn-on is the getting there - which necessarily has to be super slow, relaxed and sensual. It can be very intense.

From a male perspective - at least this one - I don't think it's due to increased tightness. In fact beyond the first inch or so of the anal muscles the rectum feels to me less tight than the vagina. But anal sex does still have an association of "naughtiness" which probably adds to the excitement of doing it every so often.

With an earlier BF it was an occasional treat for him. But he got very demanding and wanted it more and more often.
That was a dominance action then he wanted to force me. I chucked him out.
I actually "blame the anal" for that progression of stages. Even me chucking him over him seemed part of it. Did he want to be rejected?
That is why I won't do it any more.

anal sex is definitely different, with PIV, it’s more enveloping ( if that’s a thing), the penis feels kind “wrapped “, with anal it’s less so, once it’s passed the muscle, but part is tight

As a man, I prefer vaginal sex, there's just sometthing fantastic and sweet about the wetness, look and feel. Anal experiences were suggested by Female partners, it felt good and naughty.