Does every woman like oral sex (to them)?

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I feel I am missing out as I get no stimulation from oral sex. It just feels wetter and not enough friction (sorry tmi)
I haven't had a lot of oral sex but even when partners have gone down I don't seem to get much from it.
Is there a technique I can try and ask my partner?

I think we may be onto something….@RabbitSocks 🌈

My wife has never been massively into receiving oral but seems to have gone off it even more of late and brushes me away if I'm down there more than a few seconds. I think she can feel a bit oversensitive at times and seems to prefer sensation of intercourse. Not necessarily a bad thing though I do like concentrating on her and enjoy the sensual and erotic side of giving oral.

@TreacleTart8 as someone who came to their bisexuality later in life I sometimes feel I missed the ‘trying things and learning’ phase and it’s harder to strike up a same-sex connection when you’re worried about your inexperience.

Anyway, apologies for derailing. Back to oral!

I'd agree it depends entirely on the partner. Ex-DP. didn't like doing it so, on the rare occasion he did, I never relaxed. Current DP is a genius at it and has clearly practiced far too much for his young years!

Recently had a date with a guy who wrapped his arm across my hips to pin me down then used his fingers on my g spot and his tongue on my clit until I thought I was having an out of body experience. Would have loved to repeat it but he turned out to be incredibly boring.

I'm not sure I agree that women give the best oral to other women. The first time I found my face buried between a girl's thighs, I didn't much care for the taste. Since then I've found other women who taste nice but I still feel like I don't have a clue what I'm doing! Give me a cock any day... those I can do! 😂

I adore receiving oral from either sex
i still prefer my fellas big black dick lol but I do enjoy the tenderness of a sensitive persons attention x

I love it

Unfortunately DP hates giving so it's been 9 years since I was on the receiving end. I often fantasise about it. I love giving too

More or less than dick ? 😂

@RabbitSocks me too. You’re welcome to DM me

It does nothing for me. But I love the idea of it.

I love to receive it.
It's a dealbreaker for me, my husband loves to give and knows it's the most important part of sex for me. I wouldn't commit to someone that wasn't into it.

I had my first ever orgasm age 17 from oral, and I can still remember how I felt and the shock that my body could do something like that. I didn't know that's what it was at the time either.

My boyfriend at the time was also 17 and had more experience than me, he knew exactly what he was doing.
I still remember that feeling while everything down below was gradually swelling up then a huge release of pure pleasure.
I lay there soaking it up while he went again and again and made me orgasm numerous times.
It was incredible for a first orgasm experience and definitely contributed to feelings about oral as an older person.

@roseemarrry - l totally get that! I enjoy penetration, but if l had to choose between oral and penetrative sex l would have to go for the oral.

I have enjoyed it in the past but weirdly seem to have got more embarrassed as I've got older- won't let dp do it for fear of tasting/smelling bad

@Uselessname - Female 40s here, past the curious stage. There really is no need to have concern about tasting/smelling bad or being embarrassed. The way forward is simple.

1. Shower;
2. Lay down, open legs;
3. Relax;
4. Go to heaven!

Excellent advice!