Does every woman like oral sex (to them)?

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I feel I am missing out as I get no stimulation from oral sex. It just feels wetter and not enough friction (sorry tmi)
I haven't had a lot of oral sex but even when partners have gone down I don't seem to get much from it.
Is there a technique I can try and ask my partner?

I love giving a woman oral, its one of my favourite things to do. I've only had one woman who it did absolutely nothing for - in general and not just from me. The only thing I can say, is that, with all things, every woman (and man) is different with what they like, so dont be afraid to ask for and follow directions. How my DW likes it, is very specific, and much different to what I have done in the past.

I absolutely love giving oral, so have practiced a lot
my technique has improved I am sure ( feedback always good) some gentle sucking in the right place with some tongue work has worked well in my experience
I have been told some guys are completely clueless so maybe this is the issue or part of it or don’t really enjoy it so you are getting the vibe that they are not loving it?

I give Mrs F oral almost every time we make love I love to feel her cum before PIV she often cums twice before we move to other positions

in my limited experience every woman I have been with has enjoyed it - that sounds like I am trying to say I am so sort of sex god, not at all I am probably average in technique but sure I am well above in enthusiasm!!

it is the same for guys I have had BJ’s with little enthusiasm so way les pleasure for me as I am wondering if they are really having fun

fortunately Mrs F loves to give as well as receive and blows my mind every time for me enthusiasm is the key

I would recommend you and your partner read "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner ph.d. Its all about oral sex on women, with very explicit and accurate information/advice on female anatomy and how to give a woman the best orgasms from oral sex.

I don't like it. I think my clit is quite buried and i need firm pressing- I'm sure if it was more prominent it would be nicer...

I think I like it! I’ve been in relationships with men who are selfish in giving oral, but pretty happy to receive it of course. I have to think what’s not to like, but I seem to remember it can be quite full on if you’re very aroused.

I also got very put off by a bearded older man who smoked cigars and drank a lot and loved to be down there for hours.
Don't ask me why I had to put up with this. But ever since I've hated beards (the smell), cigar breath, and struggle with oral.

@Crestaq was it Santa ?!

Could have been - is santa Scottish?

I know it’s not the done thing on this forum to say women to say women are bad at doing something, but some are really crap at giving oral and don’t listen either.

According to Scottish kids, yes.

If he loved to be down their for hours, you must be Truly Scrumptious.

I absolutely hate it.

This is so obvious

Not all women are great at either. Trust me I’ve done the research! (I’m a woman)
Ultimately it’s always good if your partner listens, you guide them and both are open to experimenting on what works whether it’s, slow, hard, sloppy or with fingers.
@StarlightLady I’m also available for workshops. Lightheartedly of course😉

I like it being done to me but also need a jolly good seeing too afterwards xxx

I think if the man has the technique great

but it’s seems to be quite hard for them to get it

maybe because they don’t have a clit

Crestaq
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Depends on the partner. I've had a few that were really not good at it. My DP loves it and it's fucking amazing 😂
Both of us love giving and receiving.

Love it!
nothing sexier than
looking down to see his face and tongue between my legs!

You sound fun xx

Hey u sound fun x

I like it

I’m genuinely surprised people don’t like it, not in a judgey way but more because I thought half decent oral was very usual and a basic, well, requirement 😂. I’ve not had loads of partners but I’ve never had one who was terrible.
I like a firm touch too, fingers as well helps. Also, if they lie alongside you rather than the traditional position, you get their weight on your stomach and hips which might help.
I’m jealous of @StarlightLady and @TreacleTart8 - I’d love to have had the opportunity to find out whether women are on average better/worse/indifferent. Sign me up to the workshop!

@RabbitSocks - 👩‍❤️‍👩 👭 🌈