Sexual issue with DH—blowjobs

[Astralmommy]

Hello all, first post here. My husband and I have done a lot of communicating about our sex life lately, and we identified some issues to work on. Coming here for advice.

Just a bit of context—he is an awesome partner and always interested in meeting my needs, both in and out of the bedroom.

One issue right now is oral sex. I give him a full bj (like where he finishes in my mouth—that’s his favorite) maybe once every month or two. Sometimes less. I guess I thought this was a good rhythm, but he’s expressed the desire for more regular blowjobs—when I asked what his ideal was, he laughed and said “every day!”. I’m usually not opposed to them, but maybe I’ve been in a rut lately. I really do want to please him fully and meet his needs, as he does for me. Any tips on finding more enthusiasm for it and making it a more regular thing?

What are you his sex doll?

What does he do for you on a daily basis?

And do you want to do this? Every day??!! Christ no.

Get him off the porn and into the real world.

Lol, I think he was mostly joking, and the point is trying to compromise a little more, you know. What we’re doing right now isn’t working for him.

And he does whatever I want, when I want it. He’s a keeper. That’s why I take his desires seriously.

It depends if you enjoy them or not. It sounds like you don't. I think the discomfort of one partner should trump the pleasure of the other.

Hmm, not sure I’d say I dislike them. It’s just not been on my radar as much. I’d like to like it more if that makes sense.

My motto has always been : never ever suck anyone's cock when you really don't want to.

if you have to talk yourself into it, it's the opposite of good sex

just operate on a quid pro quo basis. Every time he goes down on you = one bj at some point soon for him.
If you don't like oral sex, then no bj for him.
Easy

This is a very odd post. He wants it more often, you think his comment "every day" was a joke/wishful thinking, you want it to more often than every couple of months. You two have good communication. So what's the problem?

There isn’t one OP is a sex troll.

I'm not surprised this isn't something you want to do every day. Blow jobs are super boring, and often kinda gross.... 🤷‍♀️

I would suggest giving him FEWER, and then he can really appreciate each one fully.

Why people fall for such obvious crap amazes me...

Agree you should never, ever do something sexually you are not 100% willing for.

If you are definitely keen to do them more, how about a compromise of a BJ either not to completion or not to completion in your mouth?

Is this thread for real?

How do you learn to like daily blow jobs? This is a wind up.

Maybe use it as foreplay more often? He doesn't need to finish that way EVERY time. But he can still enjoy it for a few minutes?

This is excellent advice

Made up trigger thread alert.

Makes me glad to be now living a celibate, single life. BJs were the bane of my life with my ex as he too liked them (a lot). It’s his new wife’s problem/treat now.

That’s why I take his desires seriously.

🤔

🤣

Lol

Is this thread for real? Reported.