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Foul smelling penis.

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Fentylipgloss · 01/03/2022 01:26

What's the protocol when a partner has a penis that smells like rotting sardines mixed with gone off cottage cheese? It's almost like he doesn't know how to wash it properly (I am obsessively clean).

I cannot go down and on him because the smell is so bad it makes me want to gag and when we have sex I have to go straight away and wash myself because it makes me smell too.

I don't want to just come out with it because it will make me feel mean - but I do want to be able to go near it without gagging.

Thank you.

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Namechangednorth · 01/03/2022 05:52

Jeez...you have to tell him or better still, make him history

JellybabyGina87 · 01/03/2022 13:04

He's either not washing enough or not washing under the foreskin. You have to tell him. He must know it stinks if it's that bad

SexTalk · 01/03/2022 14:07

Are you sure it’s his hygiene and he doesn’t have an infection? I would not continue having sex with him until the problem has been sorted, it can’t be good for you either.

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Fentylipgloss · 01/03/2022 15:11

He can't seem to smell it, 'cause when he rolls over in bed the air smells of it and it's never mentioned, but it's not pleasant and I know 100% it's not me.

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mug2018 · 01/03/2022 16:39

Suggest showering together .. you could make sure he gets a good clean

Inthesameboatatmo · 01/03/2022 17:51

I would tell him straight up and refuse any sexual contact until its dealt with.

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Fentylipgloss · 01/03/2022 18:00

@Inthesameboatatmo

He's the kind of person that will be immediately insulted and say there is nothing wrong. He's very very sensitive and will not take it well...

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lady725516 · 01/03/2022 19:24

Shower or bath together and wash him

JellybabyGina87 · 01/03/2022 19:31

I'd have to end it with him if he's not willing to deal with it. I suppose it depends how much he means to you and if you think it's worth over coming. He can't expect you to be ok with his dirty dick though.

Inthesameboatatmo · 01/03/2022 19:38

[quote Fentylipgloss]@Inthesameboatatmo

He's the kind of person that will be immediately insulted and say there is nothing wrong. He's very very sensitive and will not take it well... [/quote]

@Fentylipgloss.

I personally wouldn't care if he was insulted. He's insulting you more with his lack of personal hygiene and I certainly wouldn't be sharing a he'd with him if the smells that bad when he turns over in his sleep you can smell it. Fuck me how grim is that. He could have anything. Is he a new partner? Or could he have cheated or have an sti? He's probably got really bad knob cheese if nothing else.🤢🤢🤮

SexTalk · 01/03/2022 20:38

I agree with @Inthesameboatatmo if his personal hygiene is that bad to the point he smells, I would avoid sex completely, it will only be a matter of time before you pick up
an infection. Be honest with him, It’s grim.

Maze76 · 01/03/2022 23:34

That’s gross

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Fentylipgloss · 02/03/2022 01:19

We've been together for a while. It was bad at the beginning (when we first went to be intimate and I stopped). Then it got better - and for the last few years it's been sporadic but mostly it's pretty bad. I'm perimenopausal so I use that as an reason quite frequently ('lost' my libido).

I just know he'll get defensive and say he's clean, no one has ever said anything before and it's my fault..... I am predicting it now ... that WILL be his reaction.

I wouldn't be surprised if he was cheating, he went to cheat a few years ago, but stopped himself (very decent of him!!!!) so it's not something that's out of the question.

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SexTalk · 02/03/2022 09:41

I mean this kindly but why on earth are you with this man?
His dick stinks, he’s either dodging soap, rationing hot water or has an infection which can be passed onto you.
He tried to cheat and stopped himself Hmm
I don’t know anyone who would tolerate this, there’s no excuse for poor hygiene.

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Fentylipgloss · 02/03/2022 14:38

@SexTalk

Because I'm trying not to be shallow, about the poor hygiene that is! The 'cheating' he says he didn't and that should be enough for me, sadly the thought/intention was there, but I'm not one to throw in the towel straight away...

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Inthesameboatatmo · 02/03/2022 14:45

@Fentylipgloss

We've been together for a while. It was bad at the beginning (when we first went to be intimate and I stopped). Then it got better - and for the last few years it's been sporadic but mostly it's pretty bad. I'm perimenopausal so I use that as an reason quite frequently ('lost' my libido).

I just know he'll get defensive and say he's clean, no one has ever said anything before and it's my fault..... I am predicting it now ... that WILL be his reaction.

I wouldn't be surprised if he was cheating, he went to cheat a few years ago, but stopped himself (very decent of him!!!!) so it's not something that's out of the question.

That's grim op sorry. He could have an sti and if hes that clean I'd get him to check under his foreskin in front of me to prove he's a dirty bastard. Seriously raise your bar op.
It's not your problem to make sure hes clean he's a grown man. I would leave in this situation honestly. He could well have cheated you only have his word that he "stopped himself". He could've given you something.

SexTalk · 02/03/2022 14:57

[quote Fentylipgloss]@SexTalk

Because I'm trying not to be shallow, about the poor hygiene that is! The 'cheating' he says he didn't and that should be enough for me, sadly the thought/intention was there, but I'm not one to throw in the towel straight away... [/quote]
You are not being shallow to expect a man you’re sharing a bed and having sex with to have good hygiene.

JellybabyGina87 · 02/03/2022 15:08

It's not shallow to expect someone to take care of their own basic hygiene. Even if it's an infection, he's got no consideration for you as he's not dealing with it.

lostincumbria · 02/03/2022 15:17

This really isn't normal. Can I use the s word? Smegma itself is a bit smelly, but it absolutely wouldn't be as vile or as noticeable as described. This sounds like it's been allowed to build and bacteria has developed. This is not normal, not healthy and absolutely not acceptable. It should be resolved through daily cleaning but it won't go away on its own.

PussGirl · 02/03/2022 15:53

Bleeeurgh!!!!

You have to tell him!

My DP is very clean but occasionally he's a little bit smelly after a hot / busy day & if I notice his cock smells a little strong not festering and foul by the way I tell him & he whisks off to sort it out in the bathroom - no offence taken - & then we can both enjoy a blow job

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Fentylipgloss · 02/03/2022 15:55

It's been 4 years.........

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SexTalk · 02/03/2022 17:32

@Fentylipgloss

I’m a little confused in a previous post you say you’re single but in this post you’re saying you have a partner of 4 years who has a smelly penis.

Pisces89 · 02/03/2022 18:25

This would be a deal breaker for me. If he isn't willing to sort the issue out.

His future partners as well would have the same issue then he will notice a pattern ..

Pisces89 · 02/03/2022 18:26

@PussGirl

Bleeeurgh!!!!

You have to tell him!

My DP is very clean but occasionally he's a little bit smelly after a hot / busy day & if I notice his cock smells a little strong not festering and foul by the way I tell him & he whisks off to sort it out in the bathroom - no offence taken - & then we can both enjoy a blow job

LOVE this!!
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Fentylipgloss · 02/03/2022 19:14

@sextalk

That post was on behalf of a friend :)

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