Foul smelling penis.

[Fentylipgloss]

What's the protocol when a partner has a penis that smells like rotting sardines mixed with gone off cottage cheese? It's almost like he doesn't know how to wash it properly (I am obsessively clean).

I cannot go down and on him because the smell is so bad it makes me want to gag and when we have sex I have to go straight away and wash myself because it makes me smell too.

I don't want to just come out with it because it will make me feel mean - but I do want to be able to go near it without gagging.

Thank you.

I am very close to a lot of my exes and still see several regularly. I am in contact and speak to two of mine daily, we are all single so not stepping on anyone's toes.

But that’s not what your post said.

@SexTalk

Yes, correct. It was all as if I was speaking as my friend. She was the one wanting advice :-)

Apart from him being absolutely grotesque hygiene wise, you say he’s never made you orgasm. Why on earth are you worrying about not hurting his feelings or being “shallow” when he seems to have no redeeming features as a sexual partner? Is it akin to when Mrs Merton asked Debbie McGee what she saw in the millionaire Paul Daniels?

I call bullshit. Poster cant keep stories straight on other threads.

@MrsBerthaRochester

I can pull up messages I have sent to friends about this issue.... so definitely NOT bullshit.

@MrsBerthaRochester

Also, how do you know my stories aren't straight? Do you know my friend? Do you know me? Don't make assumptions about my/my friends life when you have no idea!

Namaste.

Fentylipgloss

You have posted about your partners foul-smelling penis, you’ve been advised to speak to him about the matter but don’t want to hurt his feelings by raising this, you don’t want to end the relationship, so what is it you’re actually asking?

The very fact that you are predicting that he will say it is your fault that his cock stinks badly enough for you to be able to smell it in bed when he turns over (WTAF) is enough for you to dump the smelly bastard.

Your standards are low and he is either nose blind or just doesn’t give a toss about you.

[quote Fentylipgloss]@Inthesameboatatmo

He's the kind of person that will be immediately insulted and say there is nothing wrong. He's very very sensitive and will not take it well... [/quote]
Excuse the pun but I don’t think I could take it well either.
Bathe together and see if that helps.,

How are you able to enjoy being intimate ? I think you need to raise the bar.

"I just know he'll get defensive and say he's clean, no one has ever said anything before and it's my fault..... I am predicting it now ... that WILL be his reaction."

Besides everything else, the fact that he'll try to gas light you and make it your fault is enough. Sounds as though any respect for you is gone, so do yourself a favour and respect yourself. Imagine being able to sleep in a fresh, clean bed without having to lie next to smelly.

My exh developed into a soap dodger over years. Note EX. He won't change and this won't get better.

Nothing worse, I started back up a FWB with an ex near the end of last year. Things were going great but every time I was sucking his cock it didn't taste or smell right. Very off putting so promptly ended it again.

[quote Fentylipgloss]@Inthesameboatatmo

He's the kind of person that will be immediately insulted and say there is nothing wrong. He's very very sensitive and will not take it well... [/quote]
Well you tell him you're more sensitive and you won't take it at all.

This is either down to

Smegma
Balanitis
Or an STI

Gross

That is absolutely rank nearly made me wretch. Your having sex with that? Just rank.

Funny response here, catch Covid my taste and smell isn't back after 18 months, crack on...

Tell your partner his dick stinks and to have a bloody wash

Get one of those spray can things, that you see on tv ads, the ones that people spray all over rooms, and fabrics and all sorts of things, it may work for a penis too,.!!

Make him take a shower before. Every single time.

My husband had a tight foreskin and had symptoms like this he had this removed and problem went

My friend had this her partner would just wash with shower gel he didn't use soap . She told him he used soap and it was problem solved . 4 years that's crazy

I had an ex like that, he's married now. I wonder if his wife is having to deal with the same thing 🤢