So, I have been married for about 15 years. Most of those years were sexless. This summer I decided enough was enough and called a halt to our relationship. We are still living together in separate rooms and have kids. Not sure quite what will happen but probably maintain this for a bjt whilst we figure out. Not many people know.
A guy I knew before my DH has come back into my life via social media. We have been in touch over email etc for a few months and it has got progressively filthier. He is definitely one that got away at the time. It has given me back a libido I thought has died... A relationship isn't on the cards but FWB is. And exploring what that might mean. We are meeting up on Friday. I am beyond excited/nervous that he won't fancy me after all this time. And also I can't believe that I am at the very end of my period. So there may well be a bit of blood there.
My question. Would you have sex knowing this even though he is older then me (I'm mid forties and he is early 50s). Arguably we've both had kids and been around the block but I still feel ridiculously embarrassed to bring it up in potentially heat of moment. Ugh. That's if the sex even happens!
People who have FWB - do you have an 'evening' or is it a couple of hours of fucking and then see you later type thing? I am quite open to this as an adventure but also worried about protecting myself emotionally.