Fantasising about two men together...

[ThornAmongstRoses]

This is a really weird question - in fact I don’t even know what I’m asking.

Ten years ago, there was a boyband around that I liked. I didn’t particularly fancy any of them (they were young and I wasn’t) but I liked their cheesy pop music.

Anyhow, the other day me and my friend were chatting about the band and she bought up a theory that I’d never heard of before in which two of the band mates were secretly in love with each other, were in a relationship and although it was highly suspected and supported by fans, they were forbidden from openly being together as it would ruin the band’s image. They were purposely kept apart in public by their management but apparently their secret, behind the scenes relationship lasted about 5 years.

I completely laughed it off at first but my friend was adamant by it was true and told me to go and look on YouTube as there were supposedly 100’s of videos about the guy’s relationship and made by fans who had been speculating about it.

I did watch some of the videos and it flicked a switch in me or something because now I can’t stop thinking about them together. As individuals I have never fancied either of them.....but watching the YouTube videos about their forbidden love (they aren’t sex videos lol) I can’t stop thinking about them and suddenly I’m finding them very hot!

I find myself keep watching the YouTube videos and whereas many of them make me feel sad that they weren’t allowed to be together, the majority of them just make me feel quite turned on by the thought of them having loving and sexual feelings towards each other.

I don’t know what’s going on with me!

Is this normal?! I’m having very frequent and arousing thoughts about them....

Is this some form of escapism?!

What's wrong with it? Most guys are more than rather partial to the idea of two ladies getting it on. What's the difference?

Oh fanfiction goes on about these scenarios all the time. It's quite a normal fantasy, especially between boyband members. Very common, don't worry, you aren't some kind of sex freak !

Absolutely, it's a form to escapism/fantasy - especially for teenage fans where hormones are swirling! The Larry Stylinson stans / shippers are a menace

Absolutely, it's a form to escapism/fantasy - especially for teenage fans where hormones are swirling! The Larry Stylinson stans / shippers are a menace

My teen years are a very long way behind me Hence thinking my naughty thoughts are a little misplaced

@readytosell

Oh fanfiction goes on about these scenarios all the time. It's quite a normal fantasy, especially between boyband members. Very common, don't worry, you aren't some kind of sex freak !

Exactly...get thee to AO3 and search M/M or slash and whatever celebrity combo takes your fancy.

It's not my cup of tea but a friend of mine writes tons of the stuff!

Omg I just had a look on ao3 and typed my fave film characters, my mind is blown 😱

@TheVolturi

IKR?!

I will never watch those films in the same way again, 🤣 the filthy creatures, who knew!

Is this Duncan James and Lee Ryan?

Lit erotica is very good for these kind of stories. Pelaam’s stories are the best

@fanofsun

Is this Duncan James and Lee Ryan?

Cmon OP, give us a hint!

Sorry to revive this after so long, but I’ve just read this and I’m dying to know who you were thinking of…You could PM me if you don’t want to post it publicly - apologies if it’s rude to ask.

Totally normal, very common fantasy by the way

Surely she’s referring to Louis Tomlinson and Harry Styles?? That myth (?) is the only one I have ever known related to boy bands.

I’ve certainly never heard of the Duncan and Ryan story. I can’t remember Blue very much but I do remember Duncan being the ‘hot one’?

Mind you, it’s all personal preference I guess

Oh, thanks, I don’t follow boy bands so I didn’t have a clue. Not surprising it’s something people like to fantasise about!

I hadn’t heard this story before. But I’ll be thinking about it a lot from now on…

I hadn’t heard this story before. But I’ll be thinking about it a lot from now

Search for Larry Stylinson on YouTube

Oh I need tk know? Who is it op 🙈

I’d love to know how common this fantasy is.

I grew up slightly before the Internet, so I thought I was the only one. It was a huge relief when I read that Nancy Friday book and realised I wasn’t alone.

What book is that??

@PaddlingLikeADuck, “Women on Top”. I forget it wasn’t as revelatory for everyone as it was for me! It’s about women’s fantasies generally, but there was a short section about “watching two men”. One lady wrote about a very shy young man being seduced by two older men. There was nothing explicit in it, but I found it unbearably exciting!

‘My teen years are a very long way behind me’

Ah we don’t change that much when it comes to these matters. Enjoy your fantasies!

This is 100% my guilty pleasure 🤣

This is 100% my guilty pleasure….

Thinking about boyband members or just any men in general?

Doesn't do anything for me at all
Don't see the attraction of a man wanting to put his penis in another man's bottom. Just my opinion of course.

@PaddlingLikeADuck

What book is that??

Probably the Secret Garden , about women's sexual fantasies. Think there was a sequel too.