Just a rant really. Been with partner 6 years, we get on well and he's great in all other aspects. The only problem is our sex life. I think we are maybe just uncompatible in that department! Sex is only ever PIV, he won't do oral as he doesn't like it, won't use his hands on me, toys are out of the question as he doesn't like the thought of them either. He still asks me to give oral to him though, but he says 'if you aren't gagging you are doing it wrong'. So i don't really enjoy giving them. Sex is always so rough and I'm never really turned on enough as there no foreplay so it can be painful- he won't use lube either, yet another thing he doesn't like. I've actually wondered if he's gay as he shows no interest in my body, it's very much all about him and his pleasure every single time. I dont think he could pick my vagina out of a line up, he's honestly never touched or looked at it! I've never had an orgasm with him, but I can get myself there in under 5 minutes and had no problem getting there with previous partners. I've talked to him about it plenty of times, but he thinks I'm the problem- apparently his ex loved sex with him and always had multiples. Also i know he watches alot of porn. Is this worth splitting up over do you think? I really miss good passionate sex with mutual foreplay etc, but we get on so well in all other regards so it seems a shame to split up over this. Also We have 2 DC together. Thoughts please