Please help - woman on top

[ontherav]

I'm so embarrassed to say I've reached 30 without knowing what the hell to do if I'm on top.

I've always been body conscious and as such felt shy so it the early days I used to say no and it's reach a point where I feel stupid even trying with my husband.

Please help!!!

I've read about "rocking" or it being "like being on a horse" but this just doesn't make sense to me. Do I bounce? I don't know what to do with my hips. I'm useless. What do i do?!

@ontherav

Rather than have your partner lay flat on the bed, get him to sit on the bed with his back against the headboard and this legs out in front of him.

Get on top. Hold the top of the headboard for support. Your partner will be able to put his hands on your waist/hips to help guide you, and your breasts will be in line with his face so he'll love that!

When he's inside you, grind your vagina back and forward against him. Your clit will rub against the area just above the base of his penis.
Your partner will likely push upwards with his groin whilst pulling you down at your waist/hips to get himself deeper inside you.

Enjoy!

Try to isolate your hips, and then thrust on to him lean forward so you can hide what you dont want him to see if your embarrassed or just keep kissing him so he doesnt have the chance to see.