Is Sex With a Well-endowed Man More Enjoyable?

[BrownEyedLady6899]

Is sex with a man who is bigger than average (girth/length) more enjoyable, than that of an average man? I’ve only had sex with average guys. This is just out of curiosity, as I’ve often wondered whether there was much difference in sensation, I’ve never had an orgasm through PIV but wondered whether that’s achievable with a ‘bigger’ penis.

It's not a popular view, and you'll get people trotting out the cliché about the motion of the ocean, but anything average or below average just doesn't cut it.

Exactly mittens. Sex with Anyone with a larger than average birth canal is like waving a flag in space.

So it all depends op, everyone is different. Lesbians seem to do well without any cock at all.

An ex of mine had a big one and the sex was amazing. More enjoyable than an average joe.

It’s much better

I've name changed for this post.

I'm currently with a guy who's got length and girth and he definitely hits the spot - every time.
I bloody love it and get so excited just looking at him !

The average sized guys are good if they know what they're doing but below average just won't do anything for me.

Size isn't everything but I do think it can make it better. DH is definitely on the larger size and given I'm more petite down there he made my eyes water a bit at first. If we haven't DTD for a while I do feel very stretched and he does hit my cervix easily which I like.

What I also really like is he had a circumcision after we met. It really accentuates his size and I really like the look and feel of him like it.

At last, some honesty.

Man here, I have always assumed that the 'size doesn't matter' statement is generally used to protect the feelings of men with a smaller penis.

Wouldn’t more than a 6 inch plus penis hurt though, my partner is at the 6” mark, in certain positions, where he goes deep, it can feel uncomfortable. I am petite though, so I’m not sure whether that plays a role. I guess I would only know the answer though, if I had bigger!

i think big penis' is a male fantasy to be honest. im not saying some women dont like it but men love to show off their mega manhood both to other men ie in gym showers boasting as they do or to new lovers sort of arent you a lucky woman look what ive got. ive had everything from a 2" to a 12" and there is definitely some thing in the old saying its not what you have its how you use it. if a big man just thinks oh just get it in its not going to be enjoyable but if he is a good lover and bothers with foreplay what he has is not so important

@labazsisgoingmad - I can understand what you’re saying, I was dating someone with a smaller than average penis for about 6 months, whilst we enjoyed foreplay, when it came to sex, I felt there was a lack of sensation, if I was well lubricated and that part wasn’t that enjoyable but the foreay in itself was good.
And 12 inches

And what about larger than average dicks and anal? How does that feel for you?

Average is fine for me but I'm petite . I've had a few children but I still feel an ouch even with fingers

These well endowed blokes do bring something special though, it feels intense.

Women are polite about this! You date a whole person after all... not just the content of their pants.

If someome is very large it can actually be uncomfortable. Beware the mega thruster too. Some have more size than skill.

I've had sex with men with very large penis's and men with fairly small and hand on heart it makes no difference what so ever. If they don't know what there doing with 2/3 inches or 10+ then the size makes no difference it's honestly what they do with it. Obviously if someone had a mushroom penis that doesn't even go inside you then obvs not gonna be able to do out but for me size def does not matter.

Yes. bigger is better, small and piddling not. But people have all different opinions on this.

Yes, so long as not too well-endowed.

I like a happy medium. Definitely wouldn't like too small but given there are a few positions where it feels like something it being hit, I certainly wouldn't like too big either.

It's about how hard .

Its clearly not all about size? its about passion,engagement and the ability to control his orgasm? After all,who wants to get all hot and worked up only for him to squirt even before you've got used to having him inside you?

I'd like some definition of 'what you do with it' that counts'.

If two identical twins had sex with you (separately) and one was amazing because he knew what to do with it, and one was terrible because he didn't know what to do with it, what specifically would be the difference?

In my experience very well endowed men tend to be lazy in bed. It's like they present their erection and think that should be enough. I do think size matters to some extent but the best guys are the ones who learn quick to how you react to things and then make a mental note of it.

I was with a large man for 19 years, he only made me cum once and that was through oral. I've now been with an average guy for 6 years and he makes me cum every time. Like a PP said in my experience larger guys think banging away is enough...it's really not! And yes anal is so so much better with an average cock!

I'm taking middle ground on this, there is a minimum size below which it just isn't as good, there is also a maximum beyond which it's not as enjoyable either and yes some larger men seem to think the size speaks for itself and are lazy in other ways. I'm getting on a bit now, so also coming into play with over 40's is rigidity - some just are not able to get as firm sometimes, thus a smaller ( but average) size firm one is better than a bigger less firm one. But that's just going off PIV, the whole relationship counts.