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Is Sex With a Well-endowed Man More Enjoyable?

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BrownEyedLady6899 · 11/06/2020 14:31

Is sex with a man who is bigger than average (girth/length) more enjoyable, than that of an average man? I’ve only had sex with average guys. This is just out of curiosity, as I’ve often wondered whether there was much difference in sensation, I’ve never had an orgasm through PIV but wondered whether that’s achievable with a ‘bigger’ penis.

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Lynda07 · 18/06/2020 23:56

Depends on how you feel about them and if they know how to use it, BrownEyed.

Lynda07 · 19/06/2020 00:01

PS Size of penis has nothing to do with orgasm. Thinking back many years, i remember two who were eight inches, one a bit over that. They were both arrogant and in love with their cocks, did nothing for me. 5-7" was fine but what else they did and we did together was equally important.

I wouldn't fancy a really little one.

NewNewt · 19/06/2020 00:23

Measure over the top or underneath? I want to give DP the best chance of a good score when I measure him later Smile I'm guessing he's a 5.5/6 but I'm not very good at estimating non metric

SeaMills · 19/06/2020 00:32

Measure over the top or underneath

On top. There's some instructions here...

www.sciencemag.org/news/2015/03/how-big-average-penis

itsureis · 19/06/2020 13:13

I do agree with the arrogance that sometimes comes with the above averaged sized manhood.
I have had experience of this - just drops his trousers and there you go .. no foreplay and actually not bothered as to whether or not I was satisfied 🤷‍♀️
Had to give myself a little talking to and eventually got rid ;-)

SeaMills · 19/06/2020 13:36

I must have hit it lucky. No arrogance at all and a very considerate lover. Quite happy to give me several orgasms before he gets his turn.

gensim · 19/06/2020 14:16

In my experience, yes. There's something so incredibly satisfying about being filled up by a big cock and stimulating areas that only deep penetration can achieve.

DebbieDoItAll · 19/06/2020 16:08

IME a thicker penis gives more sensation, my DP has a girth of 6 inches and I measured it due to it being the chunkiest one I've seen, length 6.5 inches. I orgasmed from PIV the first time we slept together although our chemistry is and was intense. One thing I can't compute is the size of DP's manhood when soft, it is smallest I've seen and is smaller than my thumb which is 2 inches long.

Only one other partner (from 14 in total) has given me an orgasm through PIV and we'd sleeping together for a few months when it first happened.

Namechangecringe · 19/06/2020 18:22

My husband is above average in length and girth and sex is awesome. That said certain positions are awkward because he goes too deep.

Namechangecringe · 19/06/2020 18:29

Reading the full thread I now want to get out the tape measure 😂 I think he is over 8 inches

Alongwayfromeverything · 20/06/2020 01:11

Sex is fitting one thing into another. If you’re saying you can only be satisfied by an ‘above average’ man, what you’re saying is that you have an ‘above average’ sized vagina.

Doesn’t sound so good now does it?

It’s about how you fit with your partner and how you turn each other on.

Normalmumandwife · 20/06/2020 07:53

I think the Op was asking if more enjoyable. Not that can only enjoy with a larger man.

As for fit, well you have a point to some extent if a woman is naturally large below. I think for me I'm naturally petite so average feels nice and "tight" but when I met DH I was definitely stretched. It hurt a little at first but I'm a nice way, but vaginas stretch well and he is good at arousing me. I like that he is longer though as as another said it feels nice if you feel full which I do enjoy and wouldn't be as satisfied with a smaller guy

I won't be showing him this thread as his head will swell (as well as his cock)

SeaMills · 20/06/2020 09:56

Sex is fitting one thing into another. If you’re saying you can only be satisfied by an ‘above average’ man, what you’re saying is that you have an ‘above average’ sized vagina.

I don't think anybody has said that they can only be satisfied by an above average man.

In any case, vaginas aren't a fixed size. They are flexible. That's how babies pass through.

WitsEnding · 20/06/2020 10:24

Yes much better. And there’s nothing wrong with my muscle tone (GP opinion) thanks.

It means anal is out of the question but I know what I prefer.

Ineedtobecalm · 20/06/2020 12:51

So as a result of this thread I got the tape measure out of the sewing box and measured DH. Just over 7 long and 5.5 girth. Which means one of my ex's must have had an absolute whopper but wasn't any better in bed. In response to one of the posts above, DH is also a real grower not a shower.

SimonJT · 20/06/2020 23:31

I haven’t experienced sex with a small or below average penis, both my partners have been quite big, but I don’t think the physical pleasure side of sex would be as intense with a penis thats on the small side, especially a lack of girth. My boyfriend is very good with his hands, but a few fingers just aren’t enough, so I don’t see how I would find a small penis enough. His penis for me is the perfect length/girth.

Itsthesamehere · 21/06/2020 14:01

For me larger is definitely not better and very large is actually unpleasant.

But then whenever i’ve had a coil changed i always get comments about having a very narrow birth canal or that there is not much room on here!

I also like anal every bit as much as piv and that with someone is large is a no no. So in short if I met a tall handsome man and he got out an 8 inch cock I’d be deeply disappointed!

Sunnydayshereatlast · 24/06/2020 15:36

Once measured exh's and he was so proud he rang his dm and told her!

notanotherpandemic · 30/06/2020 12:21

I thought size didn't matter until I met my now partner. He is very well endowed and I regularly orgasm with PIV sex. It's so much better.

notanotherpandemic · 30/06/2020 12:25

[quote Lockheart]It always baffles me how many people say that anything average or below is too small.

Most people aren't able to measure accurately by eye.

If your partner has a 6.3" penis, they are in the 95th percentile of men. That is RARE.

7" or up is even rarer.

The average is 5.16".

A penis that is 3.94" or less is just as rare as a penis that is 6.3" or more.

I'm sorry to break it to some of you, but it's far more likely that you're overestimating your partners size rather than actually sleeping with someone with a 7 or 8" penis.

www.sciencemag.org/news/2015/03/how-big-average-penis[/quote]
My partner has been measured and hard he is 9inch!

whatayearitis · 02/07/2020 10:20

A 7-8 inch penis is great
I think it hits my spot and with any sex good stimulation before during and to both climax is working out what turns you on and how to make that happen during piv.
Sometimes stimulating yourself as well can make your partner get into helping you achieve that organism
Not all women who have babies are a "ocean" at all.

CrazyToast · 02/07/2020 22:03

No it doesnt make for better sex ie more orgasms. It makes for a more intense experience in terms of being pounded. But not more orgasms.

notevenat20 · 03/07/2020 07:49

For those who prefer large cocks, what do you do about anal sex? Do you just say no or try to make it work?

StrangeCreature · 03/07/2020 09:30

Regarding anal sex, it is something I have never done and would not even contemplate! urrgh. so its not a consideration for me, PIV all the wayGrin

BluebellForest836 · 03/07/2020 09:45

@notevenat20 - I try and make it work... it is a bit more painful but I use a toy first

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