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Opinions from men about ball-sucking, please

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NobdieTheNob · 17/12/2019 21:11

Do you like having your balls sucked? Sorry not to beat about the bush, but I am wondering. If so (or if not), why?

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MarianaMoatedGrange · 17/12/2019 22:13

What the actual fuck with the nn OP?

Gin
Spritesobright · 17/12/2019 22:15

My boyfriend seems to love it. And I enjoy doing it to him because I love his body and can't get enough of it.
Surely it just feels nice for him?
They're quite sensitive.

ArabellaPilkington · 17/12/2019 22:21

Seriously I don't give a rat's shit about gin or ball sucking.

Were you a Nobdie OP? What's with the nickname?

Happyhusband · 17/12/2019 22:32

No. It makes me giggle and squirm.

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NobdieTheNob · 17/12/2019 22:34

Sigh.

There seems to be more interest in whether I was a nobdie in 2008 or whenever, than in ball-sucking.

Anyway.

To answer the 'nobdie' questions, I was so much of a nobdie way back in the day that I wasn't even a Nobdie, IYSWIM. I was just a nobody who serially name-changed once it became clear that MN had more than about 10 users (until then, I had the same name, because it was just like taking to friends. Bear in mind this was in the relatively early days of the internet, or tinternet, as we called it then).

Anyway.

The advantage to the Early Days is that someone could start a kind of light-hearted-ish thread (albeit with a genuine undertone) about, say, ball-sucking. And people would respond with something other than a suspicion that I'm a) a man, and b) a perv.

I genuinely just idly wondered, after a drink, whether it feels nice. My DP says it does, but I wondered if he was just being kind/polite, and whether it was truly something that feels nice.

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NobdieTheNob · 17/12/2019 22:36

ItsNearlyMorning, as previously mentioned I don't have a social media profile at all. Probably just as well. Grin

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waterSpider · 17/12/2019 22:37

? noobie/newbie?

Could try looking up teabagging?

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NobdieTheNob · 17/12/2019 22:37

Urgh - I have now taken in the fact that I have two male responses, and they're not positive. Which makes me wonder if DP is just being polite. FML.

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NobdieTheNob · 17/12/2019 22:41

waterSpider, Nobdies were MNers who weren't 'MN Royalty' (i.e. who were "Nobodies", and who weren't part of the quiche headed by the likes of Bupcakes, AF, GetOrf, SGB and countless others whose names will come back to me tomorrow). Nobdies were a category unto themselves!

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MarianaMoatedGrange · 17/12/2019 22:48

Not part of the MN quiche eh? What about the MN chicken then?

lovesmarties · 17/12/2019 22:53

My wife did it when we first met. I believe it was part of the "I am a sex goddess and you absolutely need me in your life" thing that (in my experience) women do when they are trying to keep a man.

She doesn't do it now. It did nothing for me then, and I don't miss it.

But all men are different.

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NobdieTheNob · 17/12/2019 22:55

Marina, the MN chicken was after my time, thank God.

Thank you, Smarties, for giving a third male perspective, albeit one that suggests that I'm getting more out of the ball-sucking experience than DP is (whatever he suggests).

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NobdieTheNob · 17/12/2019 22:58

It does make me wonder, though, what men like if it's not necessarily ball-sucking? I've always generally thought that men quite like it if women like having sex with them, but is that a bit basic? (I am not exactly experienced, here: I married XH when I was 19, and DP is only my second partner, 25 years on...)

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DanFmDorking · 17/12/2019 22:58

It's tea-bagging.
There are more nerve ending in the penis than in the scrotum.
Concentrate on the penis as far as I'm concerned.

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NobdieTheNob · 17/12/2019 23:00

That is actually v useful, Dan. Thank you. (will not see tea-bags in the same way now, but I'll get over it).

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lovesmarties · 17/12/2019 23:01

Concentrate on the penis as far as I'm concerned.

This. My wife is pretty good here. I love it. She won't let me come in her mouth, sadly.

DanFmDorking · 17/12/2019 23:03

... it's OK unless she has a nut allergy.

(I'll get my coat)

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NobdieTheNob · 17/12/2019 23:05

😂

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NobdieTheNob · 17/12/2019 23:08

While we're at it (so to speak) and on an anonymous forum, Smarties, what would be good about coming in her mouth? DP does this and we are both happy with it - but I always wonder slightly if he's just doing it to please me (he always seems happy, but I don't want to interrogate him about every single aspect of our sex life, as he would rightly think I was insane).

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NobdieTheNob · 17/12/2019 23:10

Will add that this is all a bit new to me, as I didn't do any of this with XH. Sex led invariably to pregnancy, though I was much younger then!

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lovesmarties · 17/12/2019 23:16

The feeling that I have to hold back always limits the enjoyment I get from a blowjob. It's an absolutely amazing feeling to have a woman bring you to orgasm in her mouth, and then swallow. The same is true of making a woman come with your tongue.

Sadly, my wife will do neither!!

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NobdieTheNob · 17/12/2019 23:21

Thanks for the honest answer, Smarties. It's interesting to hear it from a third party. DP makes me come with his tongue on a regular basis (though this partly because it works well for both of us, as neither of us is 20something, and I don't come from PIV sex). It is immensely enjoyable, and not something I'd experienced in 20 years of marriage. Likewise giving him a blow job! I would never have done that with XH. It's absolutely lovely (for me) to do it with DP, though.

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lovesmarties · 17/12/2019 23:33

Good for you both! Keep up the good work!

Signoftimes · 18/12/2019 07:26

I think the main thing for me, as a guy, is if my wife is clearly enjoying it. To be honest if she is she could do pretty much anything she likes to me as knowing she is ‘into it’ is a massive turn on itself.

So.....ball sucking as I said does nothing for me....but if she is enjoying it and it’s part of a wider exploration/foreplay then why not!

Anotherblokelurking · 18/12/2019 08:38

Does nothing for me, prefer my DW to concentrate on the shaft and bell-end

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