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To ask if any other woman is only able to come once?

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BloodSugar · 30/09/2019 08:45

Name changed for obvious reasons.

In my youth, and I means teens, I have a memory of coming twice a few times but my whole adult life I've felt very much 'like a bloke' in the sense that I come once and once I do I lose interest in continuing sex.

I don't see it as a bad thing as my partner is great and we have a lot of foreplay before PIV and it always hits the spot so to speak.

So it's not an issue.

I was just wondering if anyone else is like this.

I read so much of women constantly having multiple orgasms and wonder why I'm not like that.

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BrassTactical · 30/09/2019 10:41

This would be the most boring wank fodder ever Grin

I don’t even once usually, and never through PIV. So if I set the base level of the averaging for the group then you are killing it statistically speaking!

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JoMumsnet · 30/09/2019 10:41

Just letting you know that we're going to move this thread over to our Sex topic. The OP's been on the site for a fair while (and has indeed changed her username for this thread) so we've no major concerns here but we think she'll get a better response over there.

Hope that's okay with you, OP.

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Waspnest · 30/09/2019 10:42

Possibly, but we have no way of knowing that's true. Presumably you would have been allowed to post on the Sex topic because MNHQ would have known you were a long term user (I don't know, I'm assuming they base the rules on email rather than username but like I say I don't know).

Way too many knows there! And yes I agree, another thing that men have ruined.

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Waspnest · 30/09/2019 10:43

Major x-post!

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NoSauce · 30/09/2019 10:56

I agree with Fizzypoo. There’s a perfectly good sex topic for stuff like this. Glad to see it’s been moved there.

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ShippingNews · 30/09/2019 11:19

Gosh - I'm in my 60's and have always had multiple orgasms , all my life. These days because of DH having physical problems, it's more likely to be me taking care of business by myself, but it's still the same. I can do it again a few hours later, too , no problem.

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Crystal87 · 30/09/2019 13:23

My second orgasm always comes more quickly and is more powerful than my first. I usually have about 3 if using a vibrator and I'll come more during intercourse.

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Momo18 · 30/09/2019 22:04

I used to only be able to orgasm once. I'm not sure what's happened but I can have ongoing orgasms that last around two minutes or I can have multiple ones that come every 30 seconds or so once the first has peaked. I've really no idea what changed other than taking vitamins Confused

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StarlightLady · 01/10/2019 00:44

Immediately after orgasm my body has heightened sensitivity to the point that any form of touch is uncomfortable, almost to the point of being momentarily unpleasant.

If l ride that, l can take myself beyond that threshold, there are other climaxes to be had nefore the ripples subside. At first though it is almost like fighting your own body rather than letting it dictate to you. Worth it though!

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Anotherblokelurking · 01/10/2019 05:09

Sorry the way this thread turned out but to add my comments - my current DW usually is more than happy with just one orgasm from clitoral stimulation, and she needs a bit of calming down time after it. She doesn’t lose interest though, she is quite happy to play with me and move on to PIV or sometimes oral or hand happy endings for me. Recently she has sometimes been experiencing mini follow up orgasms during slow PIV and Very occasionally, and I do mean VERY occasionally she can experience a second orgasm from further clitoral stimulation and she finds the second one ten times more orgasmic (?) than the first.

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Mumoftwox · 01/10/2019 20:04

Did find these comments pretty funnyGrin why would someone accuse you of being a troll for asking a biological question.. am confused Grin anyways am the exact same and have always wondered about it, ORGASM once and it's all over for me I would struggle to go again later, unless it's been at least about 8 hours.

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CanIhelpyouatall · 08/10/2019 15:09

I only climax once then won't be ready again until the morning after.

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crestar · 11/10/2019 20:14

Fizzypoo

Someone who is clearly uptight whatever they say.

Do you really think someone has nothing better to do than sit here wanking over this topic.

There is much more wanking material on the internet than a Mumsnet thread.

For fucks sake, get over yourself.

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sammylady37 · 12/10/2019 12:42

it can take a while to get me to my first orgasm but once I’ve had one I usually follow with another two very quickly after.

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ethelfleda · 12/10/2019 19:35

I've really no idea what changed other than taking vitamins

Errrrm - which vitamins are these please? Grin

OP - I am exactly the same as you

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Divebar · 13/10/2019 00:35

People are so suspicious about anything remotely sexual on this site. There are actual sex forums where individuals can indulge to their hearts content... I just don’t see that anything posted here was that graphic or sexually scintillating. Anyway, to answer your question once only for me too OP.

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