To ask if any other woman is only able to come once?

[BloodSugar]

Name changed for obvious reasons.

In my youth, and I means teens, I have a memory of coming twice a few times but my whole adult life I've felt very much 'like a bloke' in the sense that I come once and once I do I lose interest in continuing sex.

I don't see it as a bad thing as my partner is great and we have a lot of foreplay before PIV and it always hits the spot so to speak.

So it's not an issue.

I was just wondering if anyone else is like this.

I read so much of women constantly having multiple orgasms and wonder why I'm not like that.

[Divebar]

People are so suspicious about anything remotely sexual on this site. There are actual sex forums where individuals can indulge to their hearts content... I just don’t see that anything posted here was that graphic or sexually scintillating. Anyway, to answer your question once only for me too OP.

[ethelfleda]

I've really no idea what changed other than taking vitamins

Errrrm - which vitamins are these please?

OP - I am exactly the same as you

[sammylady37]

it can take a while to get me to my first orgasm but once I’ve had one I usually follow with another two very quickly after.

[crestar]

Fizzypoo

Someone who is clearly uptight whatever they say.

Do you really think someone has nothing better to do than sit here wanking over this topic.

There is much more wanking material on the internet than a Mumsnet thread.

For fucks sake, get over yourself.

[CanIhelpyouatall]

I only climax once then won't be ready again until the morning after.

[Mumoftwox]

Did find these comments pretty funny why would someone accuse you of being a troll for asking a biological question.. am confused anyways am the exact same and have always wondered about it, ORGASM once and it's all over for me I would struggle to go again later, unless it's been at least about 8 hours.

[Anotherblokelurking]

Sorry the way this thread turned out but to add my comments - my current DW usually is more than happy with just one orgasm from clitoral stimulation, and she needs a bit of calming down time after it. She doesn’t lose interest though, she is quite happy to play with me and move on to PIV or sometimes oral or hand happy endings for me. Recently she has sometimes been experiencing mini follow up orgasms during slow PIV and Very occasionally, and I do mean VERY occasionally she can experience a second orgasm from further clitoral stimulation and she finds the second one ten times more orgasmic (?) than the first.

[StarlightLady]

Immediately after orgasm my body has heightened sensitivity to the point that any form of touch is uncomfortable, almost to the point of being momentarily unpleasant.

If l ride that, l can take myself beyond that threshold, there are other climaxes to be had nefore the ripples subside. At first though it is almost like fighting your own body rather than letting it dictate to you. Worth it though!

[Momo18]

I used to only be able to orgasm once. I'm not sure what's happened but I can have ongoing orgasms that last around two minutes or I can have multiple ones that come every 30 seconds or so once the first has peaked. I've really no idea what changed other than taking vitamins

[Crystal87]

My second orgasm always comes more quickly and is more powerful than my first. I usually have about 3 if using a vibrator and I'll come more during intercourse.

[ShippingNews]

Gosh - I'm in my 60's and have always had multiple orgasms , all my life. These days because of DH having physical problems, it's more likely to be me taking care of business by myself, but it's still the same. I can do it again a few hours later, too , no problem.

[NoSauce]

I agree with Fizzypoo. There’s a perfectly good sex topic for stuff like this. Glad to see it’s been moved there.

[Waspnest]

Major x-post!

[Waspnest]

Possibly, but we have no way of knowing that's true. Presumably you would have been allowed to post on the Sex topic because MNHQ would have known you were a long term user (I don't know, I'm assuming they base the rules on email rather than username but like I say I don't know).

Way too many knows there! And yes I agree, another thing that men have ruined.

[JoMumsnet]

Just letting you know that we're going to move this thread over to our Sex topic. The OP's been on the site for a fair while (and has indeed changed her username for this thread) so we've no major concerns here but we think she'll get a better response over there.

Hope that's okay with you, OP.

[BrassTactical]

This would be the most boring wank fodder ever

I don’t even once usually, and never through PIV. So if I set the base level of the averaging for the group then you are killing it statistically speaking!

[GaudyNight]

Well, then, you'll be able to post on the sex topic where people can focus on your question, rather than wonder about your motivation.

[BloodSugar]

Wasps. I've been here for 14 years. Under one name or another.

[Waspnest]

There is presumably a reason why MN only allow posts on the SEX topic by people who've been regular site users for at least 90 days. So I think it's pretty reasonable to be suspicious of someone posting about sex with no very little posting history. Many of us are aware of the teenage girl/periods, toddler potty training trolls and these days I'm far more cautious about commenting on these very personal types of thread (especially when they appear on AIBU).

[BloodSugar]

So another thing men have ruined for women?

We can't even post on a mums support board about anything slightly intimate because there's a load of wanking trolls about to spoil it.

Urgh.

[GaudyNight]

On reflection this probably isn't the most appropriate topic to post but I didn't think people were still so uptight over the word orgasm that it would cause offence

It doesn't cause offence, but there is a long history of people asking apparently 'innocent' questions for information which are essentially a way of getting women to provide details of their own sexual experience -- for whatever ends. See also posts on toilet training, whether your parents' spanked you etc.

[Thegullfromhull]

People can actually be wanking over your posts from afar regardless of which topic you post in.
If you post in style with a pic of your shoes you may have thousands of foot fetishers having a wanking party somewhere. You just don’t know.

[TheQueef]

The sex topic is better for sex topics because you have to been a mnet member for a time it stops wankers registering and starting a frap thread.
If it's in sex then the responses are better.

[GeneHuntLover]

It would be better in the sex topic though

[Woodlandwitch]

Most random post I’ve seen ever @Fizzypoo