My fast & furious, silent, jackhammer sex life ......

[SunSeaLust]

Just that really ... Been together 2 years, I really do love this man, but sex is really getting me down.

He will literally pound hard and fast, literally like I'm not even a person  there's no stimulation, no gentle embrace, or any embrace for that matter, he'll either just pound away or if I'm on top trying to slow him down, he grabs hold my hips and literally rags me back and fourth within an inch of my life!! ... All the while in absolute silence on his part! Not a peep! I don't even know when he ejaculates! ... I've brought it up before & he got so defensive & upset I had to let it go! ... I get so sore and I'm so unsatisfied, the frustration is driving me insane!!! ... Anyone else been in this situation or similar 

[ISpeakJive]

How are you Sun?

[SunSeaLust]

I'm so upset,
He never came to get his stuff ... I've had to bring it back in the house, I can't believe he's just cut me out like this and I don't even know why. I can't even get his stuff out of here
Thank you for asking.

[Jason118]

He maybe saw the stuff and legged it? There are charity shops that will take it, maybe give him a few days to collect and let him know that's where it's going if he doesn't pick it up? Don't let him yank your chain, stay strong, good luck.

[onemorerose]

Maybe he’s seeing how far he can push you? I’m sorry this is happening, I hope you are doing alright but rest assured that you will come through this and you will be stronger and better for it. Echoing pp stay strong and don’t let him yank your chain. Remember there were flaws in the relationship before where he wasn’t prepared to acknowledge your sexual wants and I’d bet he didn’t acknowledge other wants in your relationship. I’d count this as dodging a bullet

[SunSeaLust]

I feel like I can't breathe without him. He's been living with me in my rented property, rent free and all this time has managed to saved £15k as a result, now he has the money he says he wants to put himself first and buy a house for his future. That's the reason he went out and never came home. He loves the drink, it comes before everything, he's 33 and was living at his Grandads with nothing when we met. I feel so used and broken

[Happyhusband]

Your life will be so much better without him. His future is grim. Now you know the truth you can start to put things in perspective. As others have said - hang in there, stick to your guns , you deserve so much better.

[Strongtoday]

Ugh, my god, you have really been used in so many ways! That dude is cold enough to give satan pneumonia and completely beyond redemption!

[Sodastream24]

Consider it the best thing to have happened, really.
He was never likely to change and you'd be stuck with silent shit sex forever, he actually did you a huge favour, mightn't feel like it now, but next year you'll feel so relieved.
Trust.

[pinkyredrose]

Rent free? Selfish sex? Do some work on yourself to try and raise your standards, you've been well and truely used.

[SunSeaLust]

I know
I'm really struggling here as I look back over everything. But as everyone says, time is a healer. At least I really hope so 💔

[Jason118]

Stay strong and good luck

[LinoVentura]

I suggest you take his stuff to his grandad's and consider him well and truly in the past. Do not consider taking him back or having casual sex with him, no matter what BS he might come out with in the future.