Been together years. Have openly spoke about sex what we like and dislike and what we are willing to try etc etc. The other night I was on my period and he cannot bring himself to have sex when a woman is bleeding. Fair enough, can do without the mess anyway (sorry tmi) so I wasnt fussed. We did anal first time for us together but we haven't really discussed it before, during or after. Now, he is quite well endowed so obv this brought me slight pain. Aibu to feel a bit annoyed because he hasn't said anything about the experience. I tried to mention and he completely ignored me. What would you do?