Tips to orgasm through PIV

[Severnlurveheart]

I'm in a wonderful new relationship. My partner is a generous lover and we have amazing chemistry. He is soooo good at giving oral but I have only climaxed once through PIV. It was the same day I had a Hollywood but not by waxing, it was sugaring so it's not sore but feels more sensitive in a very good way

I feel really bad about it as he delays his climax for me and although I really enjoy lovemaking I don't climax. I'm not the kind of woman that has multiple orgasms. He gives me a huge orgasm by oral then it feels over sensitive immediately after. I am happy with a morning and nightime orgasm but I find my clitoris feels desensitized if we have more than 2 sessions a day. He does have a strong sex drive, we are both early fifties.
I only see him every other weekend, we aren't at it like rabbits 24/7 btw. Is there anyone else out there who has overcome this? Excuse the pun.

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The only way I climax with PIV is me on top with DH sat up.
I have to ride for quite a while, it does take a lot of effort on my part.
But the orgasm is way way better than just a clitoral one!

For me it needs to be on top after plenty of oral stimulation. Interesting what's been said here about the partner sitting up I might need to give that a try!

Yes partner sitting up definitely works rather than him lying flat.
A chair is good

I'm not fussed about oral either and it doesnt make you a man's dream, i find a lot of men are really disappointed by it, and i get that because i love giving a BJ but have had two partners who didnt like them, one tolerated it to humour me, one wouldnt even let me try. Obviously we have to respect partner preferences but im relieved my current fwb enjoys them!

I kind of feel he is used to women who do, I don't want to ask to much as I easily get insecure. His last partner told him she had been with a woman for 2 years then wanted a man

You heard that from her, did you?