What's the real, honest reason you don't have an affair?

[BusyDoingLittle]

I think a lot of us are tempted sometimes.

My main reason is that I don't trust anyone to keep a secret. If I cheat, I am trusting that person for the rest of their life to never say anything. And if it gets back to DP...then I lose everything.

Maybe you're lucky and your honest reason is that you're so in love and so satisfied that you could never ben with anyone else. If so I respect that and good for you.

What's the real reason you don't cheat?

I don't have the time. My commute is really long and when I am not at work / on the train, I'm with DC.

Because it never ends well. Done it, got pregnant, had to terminate and was a horrific experience.

BF I’m with now, we’ve agreed to talk if we ever get tempted, and sort it out somehow.

I don’t have the time nor the energy. Plus I would hate what it would do to my DH.

Because I think infidelity is totally totally wrong. I could never ever do that to my DH and I know he would not do that to me either.

I love and respect DH and if I didn't I would not stay married.

Can't face the fall out. I am single and a man that I like, who is married, would like to have some kind of a relationship with me. But I can't do it. His wife has given him the best years of her life and doesn't deserve it. His kids are completely innocent and don't deserve it. My friends would try their best to be non judgemental but secretly be incredibly disappointed in me...

Nope. I'm just not going to go there. Not because I don't, in some ways, want to, (honestly I fancy him so much I could weep with sexual frustration) but because the potential for pain (mine and others) is too great.

I know one day when I don't feel anything for him any more I will feel so so glad I didn't go there. I'll wait for that day.