8 months into new relationship - He has 2 kids from previous marriage (he was with her for 17 years, nobody before or since)...
First time we met (online), my first reaction was to his voice - very feminine.
I like kissing - he doesn't seem to like it as much...
Though our sex life is actually really great, he cannot ejaculate 
... THIS is what worries me - he has only on a number of occasions, using the same particular position and only when very rough (sorry TMA 
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He seems pretty obsessed with anal sex ... Is this an indicator?? 
He is great but never seems to be 'all over me' even though he discusses future plans with me in them...
I'm really confused