Hi, NC for this.
I have had pretty much zero sex drive for a long time, and really need to try and get it kick-started. DH is very patient but is finding it very frustrating.
Things are gone very stale, very same-old same-old, and we both want to try something new / make a few changes - sex toys being the main idea.
However we're both heading for 50 and neither of us have ever having used anything before, and we just have no idea where to start. I suggested going into a sex shop, but we both chickened out when faced with the actual prospect of doing it - going in completely green, no idea what's what, feeling stupid. I had a look on some websites, but there was such a huge array of products that I just didn't know where to start.
I'm wondering if anyone can give me some ideas / recommendations. Do people use things like rampant rabbit as couples? Or is that just something for a woman to use on her own? What about lube - who puts that on? God I sound like such an idiot 
Sorry!
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