My fiance and i have been together for over 3 years live together. Hes constantly moaning about our sex life. Blowjob mainly how he doesn't get enough i don't like them never have he knows this but i do them occasionally but he makes deals not that i agree to them - massage for a blow job' then out of the blue he will offer a massage then hold me to a blow job and moan and moan about it. I have endometriosis so sometime sex drive is 0 or in pain and can't but he drops comments like sexless relationship i have to beg you for sex. Despite two days ago we had sex on the sofa instigated by me. He moans i don't ride him often buts that's because of my illness it hurts to do so most of the time. he imply he only gets sex when he showers me with gifts despite the fact he simply spoiled me recently to make up for the fact he smashed my car up !And says he only gets what he wants when i'm really drunk.Comments like oh so you want to kick me out because you cant keep you man satisfied. Hes turned our sex life into a chore i don't want it because hes like this the more he goes on the more he puts me off and makes me feel like i'm not good enough in bed and I've told him this but nothing changes how can i get him to understand..