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Small penis sex

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runningintothelight · 16/04/2017 22:15

Name change so not outted.

Started dating a new guy last month , really nice , get on great blah blah.

Anyways , had sex this weekend and it was a little bit of a disappointment .. about 3 , maybe 4 inches erect. The sex was ok... didn't really feel anything , not even on top . Now I feel that I'm psyching myself out and putting myself off him, even though he's great. I of course would never say anything to him about it , but was wondering if anyone's been in a similar position and how you dealt with it? Different positions etc?

Thanks guys

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GotToGetMyFingerOut · 16/04/2017 22:20

Very strange you couldn't feel anything as it's the first three inches of the vagina that have the most nerve endings.

I practically never orgasm from penetration anyway so why not do other things to bring you to orgasm before penetration or use your fingers or a bullet for clitoral stimulation simultaneously. You going on too and leaning back gripping on to his ankles. On your stomach with a pillow under your Hope, your legs over his shoulders and doggy would be good positions.

GotToGetMyFingerOut · 16/04/2017 22:21

top hips

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runningintothelight · 16/04/2017 22:24

I thought it was strange too.. maybe I had just psyched myself out before and turned myself off , but thanks for the tip!

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Ikeameatballs · 16/04/2017 22:26

Was girth an issue too? That may be why you couldn't really feel him.

QuentinSummers · 16/04/2017 22:26

Wondering how many men are going to pop on with "speaking as a man with a small penis" Grin
Doesn't bother me OP, could you try a we vibe or similar to add a bit of extra? Might be hard to broach with a new partner though

Isadora2007 · 17/04/2017 23:00

Some of the best sex I ever had was with a very small penised one night stand. It was great as he had learnt that he couldn't just thrust and roll off... so he was very very attentive with his hands, mouth etc and a great lover. I was pretty drunk and he was in his early 40s but we had sex at least 5/6 times maybe more over that night and I came every single time. It was excellent.

Shame I just didn't fancy him when sober- hence it being a one night only. Grin

DevilMakesWork · 18/04/2017 00:00

The guy surely KNOWS he has a smallish dick. You need to teach him how to get you off with his hands and mouth. Work on it. You could end up very happy.

avamiah · 18/04/2017 00:07

I agree with Isadora and Devil as the size doesn't really matter as there are other things you can do.
You need to give the guy a chance .

lottieandmia · 18/04/2017 00:09

I think it's disingenuous to say size is irrelevant. Of course it's relevant. I will be honest and say I could not be with a guy who has a 3/4 inch penis no way. I particularly like penetration.

avamiah · 18/04/2017 00:12

Lottie ,
His penis is around 4 inches .
OP does not say how wide it is.
Let's not write the poor guy off just yet. Haha

lottieandmia · 18/04/2017 00:15

4 inches is really small. I think I've been lucky as most of the men I've had sex with were very well endowed. It's personal preference.

Teabagtits · 18/04/2017 00:20

I briefly dated a guy with a tiny penis the length and width of my pinkie finger. Sex was awful (flinging a sausage up a close anyone?) and he made it worse by trying to pretend he was bigger than he was - he tried padding out with his thumbs and denying it.

If the guy is not talented in things like foreplay or willing to learn run a mile.

AnyFucker · 18/04/2017 00:23

God,

AnyFucker · 18/04/2017 00:24

I hate these threads

Isadora2007 · 18/04/2017 00:26

Awwww AF. Was your nickname Justin?

SteppingOnToes · 18/04/2017 00:32

To all those saying size doesn't matter - it can :( I was with someone who was 4ish inches erect for 5 years and although he was good with foreplay, actual sex was always a disappointment :( He would ensure I came from oral sex and then that was it then for me until he finished.

I'm quite greedy sexually as having experienced a clitoral and g-spot orgasm at the same time, and also at the same time as my partner, I know the joy that a (skilled) larger penis can bring.

avamiah · 18/04/2017 00:33

Too be honest thinking about it ,4 inches is on the small side.
I don't have a tape measure.
What is the length of a iPhone 7 ?
About 3 and a half inches.
I'm trying to picture 4 inches?

SteppingOnToes · 18/04/2017 00:35

AnyFucker
I hate these threads

I wouldn't have took you to be a prude...

dilapidated · 18/04/2017 00:39

How did he pad it out with thumbs?
Intrigued!

AnyFucker · 18/04/2017 00:39

You don't have to be a prude to feel uncomfortable when folks are plain mean

If I don't want to see a bunch of blokes talking about how shit sex is with women with fannies like buckets, I don't want to see this

avamiah · 18/04/2017 00:41

dilapidated,
Me to?
Never heard that before.
🤔😬

mumgointhroughtorture · 18/04/2017 00:42

I can honestly say I spent 7 years with a man with an average sized penis (6 inches) I then spent 6 months with someone smaller and I couldn't take anymore after 6 months I just needed a good banging lol it definitely isn't just size it's technique too. Men with a smaller penis do try harder though in my experience but I can't say I would be thrilled to find a new man and then have to make do again. What can I say? People who say size doesn't matter ARE lying!!

nooka · 18/04/2017 00:52

My dh is small. He's also a great lover. I previously had a very well endowed boyfriend. Sex was shit. I'm sure that there are great big penised lovers and poor small penised ones too, but there is a lot more to sex than PIV.

LouisevilleLlama · 18/04/2017 02:54

Not necessarily lying, depends on preference surely? Not everyone enjoys the same thing hence why what works on one partner doesn't for the other

lottieandmia · 18/04/2017 10:53

Why click on a thread titled 'small penis sex' if you're offended by people talking about it? Nobody can dictate what people talk about on an Internet forum.

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