Can someone tell me how to give blowjobs?

[Every1lovesPatsy]

I'm 37 and I don't know how to do it (my secret is out!!!! snigger, it's true).

I've obviously messed around with it the odd bit. I think the reason I am so ill prepared is I've always preferred penetrative sex to oral and I also love kissing, so by the time the kissing is fully warmed up, it always seems to lead to sex.

I dunno, now I'm 37 it seems ridiculous that I don't really know the technique and I don't know how it feels differently for men if you spit or swallow or stop before they climax. I also had a hang up about it because I don't like the servile performance aspect....but I'm getting over that now and just seeing it as another sexual fun thing to potentially do.

All general info is welcome. (-:

OP,
Make sure your mouth is super super wet and salivary and just be enthusiastic? That's my hint.
Oh, and the deeper you take it (so you're nearly gagging) the thicker and more... errrr... helpful your saliva becomes.
Also, if you want to deep throat a bit (apparently they like this) the best tip for not gagging is to pull on your earlobes- this is not a joke! If you have long hair they won't even see you doing this . It totally suppresses the gag reflex...!
Happy sucking

seemyvest you what?! I'm definitely going to try that now.

p for not gagging is to pull on your earlobes- this is not a joke! If you have long hair they won't even see you doing this grin. It totally suppresses the gag reflex...!
Happy sucking blush

I'm going to try that at the dentist

Why are you giving your dentist a bj, gamerchick ??

Yea if you pull your ears out a bit... weird to explain, but you'll know when it's working .

Why are you giving your dentist a bj, gamerchick

I have a terrible gag reflex, makes the dentist an ordeal sometimes.

Ha ha ha....see (naysayers) we can all learn something new everyday!!!

Thanks for the helpful hints.

I just try and imagine what id like if I was a bloke and do that

I also have a very strong gag reflex....underlining problems with the bjs.

Sad face....should be a daily fail article (-:

'She' is (apparently) 37 for goodness sake. If she genuinely does not know by now, 'she' never will.

What a load of rubbish, you're never too old to learn new tricks OP!

I enjoy giving them. That's half the battle. Just practice on him, trying different things, don't overthink it....that's the best way.

Thanks! lol... I'll have very droopy ears ...giggle

If you don't want to swallow, just let it run out your mouth. Ok, I know it's tmi.

Or not let it go in your mouth at all? Have hand ready, pull up foreskin at crucial moment and pinch at the top.... then hand the whole package over to him to go deal with. Works for handjobs as well.

No mess no fuss.

Someone's already said it, but just enjoy it... some guys love having their balls sucked - gently, ok gently ish...take your time, use your tongue, lips, hands, breath... if you get a good reaction, keep at it. If you dont.. try something else.. different pace/depth/add your hand....experiment. im sure he'll find a way to let you know you've hit the sweet spot :)

It really isn't that difficult, I utterly love giving them and find it a real turn on.

Lots of saliva. Dry mouths do not lead to good BJs! Use your tongue a bit and if you struggle with gagging then use your hands on the shaft and keep your mouth at the top so it is relatively shallow. My BF loves it when I twist my hands up the length then when I get to the top swirl around his head with my tongue. We have a very nice system where I play with myself at the same time. For those nights when he gets to do no work at all!
What you do at the end is completely up to you. I swallow, but only because my BF is very 'bland' (sorry couldn't think of a better word!!) tasting. I've done it with some men who nearly made me throw up with the taste.

Enthusiasm is the main thing!

whiskey same here. Unfortunately I'm inclined they all say that just so you do it more.

Lol maybe so lemon. But I like to think the stages of relationships/feelings and the way it was said meant it was truthful. If it means I am gullible...so be it!

My "trick" is to keep going after they orgasm. I imagine how I would feel if my dp pulled away just as I started to orgasm and it would ruin it for me as the momentum would be lost. I swallow (but only because he is quite bland too like another poster above mentioned) and then keep going maybe for around a minute after. It means the orgasm lasts longer and it feels nice as they start to go soft again

Learn from gay porn. Really. They know what they're doing. ;-)