Size

[DaddyDayCare82]

The age old question!! "Does it matter"
Me and my DW were chatting the other day and again tonight about size and if it actually matters, she's lucky enough that she can orgasm through both clitoral and vaginal stimulation (well so she tells me) but i posed the question that how can it actually matter when from the things we read on here and in life that most women can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation??!
So I said I'd ask the lovely ladies and gents of MN their views?!

I find that within the "average" category, it does not really matter. Too far either way out of the "average" category, it does matter. I don't tend to climax via penetrative sex, but that doesn't mean that it isn't enjoyable -s ex is about more than just orgasm. Too small (esp too slim) and there isn't enough feeling, too large and it is uncomfortable. Since 90% of my sexual partners have been distinctly "average" in that department, I would say that for the most part, size does not really matter.

Thanks Kat that's a really honest answer, and makes total sense!!
So girth is important too

Is she having a clitoral orgasm through internal stimulation? I don't think penis size matters in that case but a very slim penis just never feels very satisfying. Sorry but that's the truth. Likewise a man who can only get a semi.

Yes, but only to a certain extent, too much of it is, in my opinion, actually more of a problem than too long. Unless a guy is particularly over-endowed or underendowed in that department, most women probably won't care.

No Gallavich she can achieve orgasm just though vaginal sex

Eveyone is different. When she had her coil fitted my wife was told she had a 'very narrow birth canal'
She also finds some positions uncomfortable as my nob bangs against her cervix. Im average. But i had a fling with a tiny slip of a girl whose ex was massive (as in giving a stallion an inferiority complex massive ) and I definitely didnt measure up!

I would guess that for the vast majority anything from 4-7 inches is fine.
And even if there is no orgasm from penetration is nice to feel something.
Lets face it, men like big boobs even though anything more than a mouthful is a waste

Namechanged for this.

I'm going to get flamed for stealth boasting here, but it's not my appendage!!! 

Or sounding shallow...but I'm going to be honest.

My DP is enormous. Width and length. But mainly width.

I used to be in the category of averages with ex's and found it pleasurable. I was only orgasming through clitoral stimulation but definitely enhanced by the internal stimulation at the same time. It's absolutely more intense for me together.

The experience with my DP is completely different. Each time feels like the first time. It's absolutely overwhelming. I feel completely "full" so much so that i lose focus on everything and get a bit crazy. 

Luckily DP is very careful. I also enjoy the fact that different positions are easier when there's a bit more length. It means you can stimulate different areas. Sometimes teasingly shallow, sometimes intensely deep.

The only downside is sometimes if it's a bit overwhelming it's hard to focus on the clitoris at the same time. But then I usually get that orgasm via manual or oral first, as DP really focuses on it first, and then onto the intense internal orgasm afterwards.

So I guess each brings a different sensation and experience. But I'm now wondering if I met someone again with a smaller penis would I miss the feelings I experience now...

The next day I almost feel an imprint of him, all day.

Kind of like ruined for life...

I agree that most around average are ideal.
Too big just hurts - don't like too long or too thick.
I've never had sex with a man with a very small penis but I can't imagine that it would be very satisfying.

I would say it doesn't matter within reason.

My ex was smaller than average and I still orgasmed,
My partner now is very above average and I still orgasm.
The orgasm is better with larger partner but that might also be partly due to technique.
I definitely get extra feeling from the reach he gets to which my ex couldn't.

However, I'm not too sure much bigger would be enjoyable as it takes more preparation already and I don't think much smaller than ex would be as enjoyable too

Yes totally matters for me.

But I'm not overly keen on clitoral stimulation gets way too intense and becomes uncomfortable and sore after too long.

I'm not keen on clitoral either,
DP almost doesn't believe it as his past partners haven't orgasmed internally.

I think it matters. Clitoral orgasm is different than a vaginal orgasm and I like to expereance both. A average size is good, too small and it doesn't reach the spot, too big and it hits my bladder. I have a new partner who is slightly above average and he can get a little carried away which can be painful ( or I feel like I need to pee ). I have had several partners who can not make me orgasm though sex due to not being big enough.

I have no idea how I measure up tbh. My DW says she's more than happy and I've never had any negative comments before. But I do often wonder what others would make of it. Especially post circumcision (done as an adult). I hate how it looks now.

I always say I'd love to go on that channel 4 show Naked Attraction (but not show my face lol. Just to hear the feedback

I'm also a man who's had adult circumcision, about two years now, scars have signally faded... So looks neat now
As mentioned my wife said mine is decent size (7") that's about average...?
What would women posted on here call big then?

With a 7'' erect penis you are already 95th percentile based on scientists studies.

People will obviously find the odd gigantic one but out of 100 men, 94 are going to have smaller than you. So nothing to worry about

My DP's comes out at 98th percentile and he still wishes it was bigger 😂

It's all about girth not length. No woman wants to be prodded with a pencil.

I'm lucky then I have a decent girth haha didn't get called Helmos for nothing 😂😂

You have to have the right girth for the corresponding percentile.

I agree, pencil prodding is the worst

My ex must of been small as I think my new partner is large (white version of a black pudding lol) but he says his only average but he has good girth. My new partner gives me multiple orgasums but my ex never. So in a way yes size does matter to a certain extent but it's not just the size of the boat it's the motion of the ocean :)

My ex was enormous. Both girth and length. It was truly a monster of a cock and giving head was really stressful because he was an inconsiderate wanker who wanted me to deep throat him every time. I could barely breathe. It was also so big that I felt uncomfortably full when he was inside me. DH is on the smaller side of average (about 5" erect) but it's much more manageable.

What's average girth?

No it doesn't matter at all. The most intense orgasms I have ever had have been with a female partner. They don't even have a penis. Definitely what you do rather than how big it is

When erect it's 4.59 inches around according to Google!
I'm off to have a measure later 😂😂😂
What do you ladies consider average? My wife just said to me if you can grip it and can't touch your index and thumb you've got a big girth!! She laughed and walked away...

Well if its the about the girth of a coke can.....

Though to be honest i have wondered in the past what are the average internal dimensions of a women are, pre and post birth !