What does your orgasm feel like?

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So I was single for years, I was having sex during that time but the guy I was sleeping with was selfish and didn't really bother if I was pleased or not! Also I had one night stands that were the same.

Anyway now I have a boyfriend that I'm having great sex with! Yay he does care if it's good for me and wants to please me!

The thing is I can't tell if I orgasm or not! When he is giving me oral it feels very very good! But I never seem to have a massive orgasm and then feel like yep I'm done! I love sex and enjoy it lots! At times it's a very strong sensation which feels good but I just can't tell if it's an orgasm or not half the time!

Also when I use my vibrator again it feels good and intense at times but I still can't tell

That's why I am asking how it feels for others? I'm guessing it's not as earth shattering as people make out?

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Like a pp I'd say like a sneeze. Like an ooh I think I'm going to sneeze. Ooh I am going to sneeze. I'm going to sneeze. I need to sneeze. I can't do anything but sneeze. I've got to sneeze. I've got to sneeze. I'm sneezing. Yes I am. SNEEZE!!!!! Sneezed 😃

Ps. You wouldn't wonder if you'd just sneezed 😁 You sound close.

I get the waves thing, but With DH it's totally different to on my own. I suppose I stop as soon as it hits me, but DH holds me on the edge for another few seconds...it feels like someone has put their hands inside my brain and is wiggling their fingers about. It's so weird but awesome.
I can't bear to be touched afterwards and fall asleep immediately too lol.

Mine is pretty much exactly like bright pencil described.I have never orgasmed from PIV alone,always had to have clitoral stimulation to orgasm but with my last partner every single time I was in the reverse cowgirli would squirt,but very different sensation to clitoral orgasm.

Op - sounds like you maybe don't quite get there as i think you would know as it builds and builds and can be like an explosion, then waves or contractions and then a let down and calmness.

how do you use your vibrator? I think it can be important to be on your own and just explore - masterbate really when you feel safe and on your own. Your hand might be better unless you have long nails - ouch!