squirting

[Tingatingatale]

I am in a new relationship after a long marriage. I am having orgasms for the first time regularly and part of this is squirting. I have never done this before. My partner is very happy but it freaks me out a bit! And is also very messy . Is this something to just make the most of?

As long as your partner is okay about it I'd just enjoy the great sex you're having and not worry about it. Maybe you could have sex on a towel if it's a bit messy?

Yes, make the most of it I would say. It's great that you are enjoying sex and are now having orgasms. Why did it take so long though? Was it because you were in a loveless marriage, or was the ex just hopeless between the sheets?

Good for you OP. No one in the world would object to the squirting, it's a visual sign of a job well done.

Enjoy it! Nothing to be embarrassed about really, it happened to me the for the1st time when I had sex with current bf and it was very messy I didn't leave room for embarrassment. I was and he was .

Yes definitely. Long may it continue.
Enjoy.
99% of the time. I orgasm. But I've never squirted. I'm so of you.
You posted on here just to brag, didn't you.
Happy squiring.

Dearest OP,

Don't let it freak you out... you are enjoying it, your partner is too, so chill, laugh, enjoy and do it again. Seriously, after the first one, go on and try for a second, or third, as Mrs Eek assures me these are even better. (although it only happens with her occasionally. it's not a regular thing at all for her, and only works with her on top, so I'm the one who gets messy... :) )

Good on you OP, tell you partner from me how lucky he is xxx

Is this something to just make the most of?

Err... yes!!!

Too horribly jealous of you to write anything else...

I used to be incredibly jealous of women that could do this.. Until I realised (through my own experimentation and reading about it) that it's just an emptying of ones bladder. Somehow I felt less envious, I suppose because it's a big myth perpetuated in porn, and also a big deal on the swinger/fetish scene - I believed it was this magical liquid harboured from some magical spot .. Still it must be a very intense and enjoyable experience, If only I could reach orgasm that way... But I can't. (I'm like Orville) :-(

Is it though followyourart?

I thought they'd tested it and decided it wasn't wee but some other substance?

It is not an emptying of the bladder. It is not urine. Complete nonsense.

Studies have been done showing it is largely urine

www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/features/the-science-behind-female-ejaculation-9987298.html

Ha! I was plucking up the courage to post this and ask for views. I am in the same position as you - and it did freak me out to begin with. It is definitely not wee. We have tasted and tested this (too much tmi - but just to try to work out what it is - its more like tears actually) . It is a massive release and I love it and if you can keep going as suggested up thread it is even better. I don't want to do it all the time and it actually makes me shout - but yes just enjoy it!!

Yep I had read that but then there are others saying it is not. I would say from experience that sometimes it smells a bit wee-like and that is what freaked me out. If you make sure you are empty first it smells completely different and there is no hint of wee at all. Also it comes from the vagina so how does that work - but my biology is a bit pants.

I've read about people going as far as tasting it!! Wtf!? Desperate to prove something or what? It won't taste or smell at all because it's freshly produced urine - if you put a finger, or something up and really thrust and aggregate the area, you feel your bladder filling up.. Relax enough and in time voila - orgasm and - the key is to let go, however I cannot do this personally, and - "squirt"
Sorry it just gets me so wound up. I've spent a long time feeling like I'm somehow a freak or weird, or boring or frigid, for not being "able" to achieve this.
Oh and try watching some "squirting" porn, yep - mostly urinating. (On cue)

Sorry I believe it's just another porn produced myth to make women feel like crap, basically.

It's got nothing to do with "tightness" or "looseness", vocational.

I can, and do squirt Followyourart, and just because you do not, that does not make it a "porn myth."

The liquid I produce when I squirt is much thicker and slimier than just urine. Also, my lover likes going down on me after I squirt, and I enjoy him "tasting" it. There is no "WTF" about it!

However, don't feel like your missing out, or that you are "boring or frigid" because it isn't that big a deal. The orgasms I have with my lover through PIV are just as intense when I don't squirt, as when I do.

oh sorry - the tasting was literally on the end of the finger to see what it is - a bit intrigued. I hate the term 'squirting' but I cannot work out why. I dont watch porn so I cannot comment. Honestly, I'm as straight as they come - its just a thing - and not a big deal at all! I was going to post because I was a bit worried I was going to cause myself a mischief and wanted to draw on MN collective wisdom. But I see there is nobody posting with scary stories so I'll go back to catching up on The Archers (boring? me?)

I read about a study in which 'squirting' women had sex under laboratory conditions. An ultrasound-thingy measured the volume of urine in their bladders before and after the deed. Apparently, the bladder emptied out, suggesting that the squirt is just wee.

I still want to believe it exists though!

This one Lazy

drjengunter.wordpress.com/2015/01/10/squirting-during-sex-is-urine-new-study/

Thanks all. Sorry I forgot to come back to this.

I think that's what freaked me out was the thought that I was just weeing during sex. There is no colour though and I always wee before. Surely if it was urine then sheets would smell if left before washing. I know when my kids have wet the bed there is a definite smell to the sheets?

Followyourf

It isn't an porn myth...

''the phenomena has been written about from as early as 4 Century China, where the liquids excreted during orgasm were believed to be imbued with mystical and healthful properties.

As it turns out, during orgasm some women (10-40 per cent) experience the involuntary emission of fluid ranging from 30 to 150mL. This has become known colloquially as squirting, though this usually refers to a larger amount of liquid being excreted. In the Western world, great minds like Aristotle and Hippocrates have pondered the origins of ‘female sperm’ and ‘female discharge’ ''

www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/features/the-science-behind-female-ejaculation-9987298.html

The most common porn myth on MN seems to be that of some posters blaming porn for just about anything...

Tingatingatale - ok. The studies are all wrong. You're right. You're not pissing. Maybe you should tell the researchers their data is flawed?

youre if you had read the whole article you would see that the results were actually inconclusive. Other secretions were contained in the emissions, and the women excreted larger volumes than most women report. So it's possible that for many women it is not just urine.