squirting

[Tingatingatale]

I am in a new relationship after a long marriage. I am having orgasms for the first time regularly and part of this is squirting. I have never done this before. My partner is very happy but it freaks me out a bit! And is also very messy . Is this something to just make the most of?

I think the only ones getting upset about this squirting phenomenon are women who cannot squirt themselves

The women who excreted larger volumes are the ones whose emissions contained more urine. What a surprise lol!

The quantities of "other substances" were tiny. Nobody is saying there aren't other fluids released (although in relatively tiny quantities) - but it seems clear that in the case of anything resembling a proper "squirt" it's mostly wee.

Missmatted - nonsense. I'm not upset in the slightest. I've no wish to wet the bed. In fact the ones getting upset seem to be the women who despite the evidence are desperate to believe that they're demonstrating some sort of skill, as opposed to wetting themselves.

Enjoy it!

I fucking hate how any tangible 'proof' of a woman's pleasure has to be derided in all forms. No one thinks it's embarrassing for a man to ejaculate.
And everyone going on that its 'just piss'. I know what it feels like to have a piss - I also know what it's like to squirt.
Doesn't matter what the fluid is made up of, who cares, it's a sexual reaction to be enjoyed! Don't let people make you think its disgusting OP.

I've never done this. It sounds like those women who have experienced it have enjoyed it, so yeah I'm slightly envious. I don't feel remotely inadequate though, and I can't sense that anyone here is actually boasting about it

Calling 'porn' on things other people enjoy that aren't everyone's cup of tea is tedious, insulting and sexist, particularly when it's in reference to an involuntary and apparently pleasurable physical response in women.

There are some twisted responses on this thread. I was asking a question about something after being in a shit sexless marriage for twenty years. There is no need for some of these replies bordering on nastiness

Unfortunately the Sex topic seems to attract posters who like to have a pop and who find it difficult to grasp that some women have positive sexual experiences that they would prefer not to have themselves.

Oh and Tin I'm in a similar situation (years in a crap relationship with crap or zero sex, now making up for lost time). It's fabulous, isn't it?

Tin enjoy it and ignore the other comments. I started being able to do it in my 30s after a mostly rubbish sex life.
It's not wee!
Oh and it gets better with practice.

I'm another one who did it for the first time during the first session with a new man after a couple of decades of a hugely lukewarm married sex life! Took me very much by surprise as the idea had never even crossed my mind. New man was very chuffed indeed! (And I thought it was wee at first too )

Enjoy it! Feel smug! Give no shits about what it is!

I can remember a programme about female orgasm in which one volunteer masturbated on camera - under a duvet with various probes/electrodes in/on her body to see what happened during orgasm.

She ejaculated during orgasm, and the ejaculate was tested and it was said that although it comes out through the urethra, it wasn't urine, but a fluid similar to the fluid produced by the prostate gland.

It also confirmed the existence of the g-spot.

Can't remember when it was on, but it must be about 10 years ago, at least, 'cos that's when we left the UK.

It's not urine, having been a bit leaky at times and experienced gushing, the liquids expelled are many very different both in viscosity and odour.

Oops, dunno where that 'many' came from.

Sorry, OP, to be one of the ones thread-hijacking with all the speculations about what it is.

TwentyCups, completely agree with what you say about the dismissal of women's pleasure. And I don't find aquirting in the least disgusting. Have only done it once but was inordinately proud of my wet patch.

Didn't mean to denigrate your experience, OP. In fact being in a shit sexless marriage of my own I am madly envious!

For all the skeptics about it, look up the Skene gland. Yes I thought it was a myth until it started to occasionally occur in my 40's. Ist time, I thought the chap was talking bull till I saw the wet patch I'd made - and no there was no a hint of urine odour and it feels kind of thin and slippery.

I'm another one that experienced this for the first time,at the age of 50,with a new man. I was embarrassed at first as I thought it was wee,until a bit of research told me it wasn't. Of course,new man was (and still is) well pleased with himself! And made ME realise how mediocre my sex life was before.

I squirted for the first time last year & was mortified as I thought I'd peed all over the guy, he took it as a compliment! However even though I do that I don't feel a physical orgasm so am still confused.

It's a completely different type of orgasm for me. If you can manage to combine a usual one with a squirt one, it's mind blowing!

Wow. Some real sour bitches grapes on this thread.

Simple way to test the theory is taking vitamins. They give urine a bright orange tinge.
It's not urine ;)

I don't understand why this thread hasn't moved up the list after new comments.

I've squirted twice in my life. Enjoy whatever it is if feels great.
And to the grumpsters it's not a test. Enjoy the sex you are having rather than resenting the sex you aren't.

I don't think anyone is particularly grumpy . It does annoy me when people deny science, but carry on squirting.

If the contractions of an orgasm produce a gush of urine - so what? Why are people so defensive about it? It's obviously really enjoyable. Piss or unicorn juice, who cares?

I do & hubby likes it (though I won't be tasting it)... Can't even bear kissing him afterwards but that's just me :)

I wonder if it happens more easily with increasing age? As its only started happening recently for me (early 40s).