The taste of spunk?

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Can we discuss the taste of spunk? I've never really had a bad experience giving bj's - until last night. I'm now with a new boyfriend & last night I gave him a great bj & took him all the way to the end & was happy to swallow - until I'd tasted it that is.. Oh my god it was RANK. It tasted like a fecking ashtray, really bitter and I was stuck with a mouthful of the stuff. My previous boyfriend had really sweet tasting spunk & I could merrily swallow any time with no disgust. I'm shocked at the difference. I'm feeling quite down about it because it will spoil my enjoyment on future occasions. Does anyone know, is it purely down to diet? I know boyfriend 2 doesn't eat as healthily as boyfriend 1 but he's not that bad. He doesn't smoke & only drinks very occasionally. As far as I know he's not on any medication - although he did take viagra. Do you think the viagra gave it the bad taste?

misscph How does it taste the other way round? Welk, I've only had positive comments.
Actually, I am of Italian blood and one partner said "Italian women really do taste the sweetest"!

I personally think women can taste rather like diluted salty honey. (bisexual, me).

Perfectly fine for other people not to want to swallow for whatever reason but fuck me there's some very harsh judging on this thread! Choosing to swallow doesn't make me desperate or 'cool', I'll do what the hell I want in bed thanks.

I've never experienced foul tasting semen, I know the advice about eating pineapple is meant to mean a fairly rapid improvement but I don't know how much of an improvement, if they makes sense.

Cock breath! Haha

I'm glad someone else mentioned bleachy! DH 's is disgusting. smells of bleach. taste wise? he's only ever deposited in my mouth twice in 20 yrs together and they were accidents.....so he said.

and I was retching. fucking vile. he drinks about 2L of cola a day and his semen is not sweet.

so I say bollocks to the idea that it can taste different depending on what they eat.

It can depend what they've had to eat! I gave one once and the recipient had had a very spicy curry the night before. It made the inside of my cheeks burny burny! Lol x

I loved swallowing with new boyfriends but after a while the taste turn me off. Not sure why, may be hormones or whatever. I loved it with my DH in the beginning but not keen now. After 10 years.

Pineapple?

How do you broach the subject of it tasting eew?

Not helpful, I know

It's really sad to read some of the comments in here, like saying that men take pleasure from degrading women for their own power. Just... wow. Such a sweeping and incorrect statement. It is not a power or degrading thing at all.

Amazing.

And in response to a couple of posts, women taste different at different times of the month for sure, and some women really do have a terribly sharp, almost acidic taste on occasion. In those cases, a dollop of lube takes away the bad taste and a gentleman wouldn't dream of complaining or refusing to fellate in the future.

OP, I have heard it mentioned that Viagra doesn't help the taste, so it could well have been that. Also, when did he last ejaculate before this event? Fresher is better apparently, makes sense when you think about it I guess.

OP have you tried flavoured condoms? You can take him all the way without having to taste it.

It's the texture I don't like. You know when you have a cold and cough up a huge chunk of phlegm? YUCK.

All spunk I've ever tasted tastes exactly the same. Never sweet or bitter, slightly salty, slightly fishy, mostly bland but the texture and blandness combined is awful and it always has an acidy or bleachy tinge which burns and spreads horribly. Even a tiny bit transferred from my finger or something will give me a sore throat.

Apparently I'm weird in this so I assume I'm sensitive to something in it. It burns if I get it on my bits as well. Not the inside but the edges.

Fuck, just let it dribble away. It's just nasty! They don't need to know its not swallowed!

The texture is vastly improved when there's more of it, hence the water. When it's really thick it is a bit hard work to get down! I usually end up in a fit of giggles while trying to find somewhere else to deposit it and dp gets all embarrassed and apologetic.

From his PoV, me swallowing isn't the essential bit, but the 'acceptance' of it is a big turn on, it makes him feel happy that I love every bit of him.

It's not about degrading someone who doesn't want it, it's about enjoying the enthusiasm of someone who does want to receive it. And I'm not being a 'cool wife' or whatever, it's a big turn on for me and I will actively ask him for it if I am struggling with my own climax, just talking about it does it for me. All those saying it is gross and degrading etc, would you say the same about a man ingesting your bodily fluids?

I think its gross, not sure my man does ingest my bodily fluids as such. Certainly not in the same quantities!

I'm not desperate, I'm not trying to be cool, I'm not doing it just to please him, he's not trying to degrade me, he's not trying to be powerful, I don't find it revolting at all, I positively enjoy it and the less said about dogs the better.

This isn't a men vs women thing - people are individuals and we all like different things. If you don't like it, don't do it, but just because you find it revolting, it doesn't mean that it IS revolting.

But if a guy was complaining about slimy, snotty vaginal secretions you'd all find it rather insulting.

I do think some people do it to please men and seem cool, not all.
And some men definitely get off on the degradation. Look at porn. Again not all.
Personally I do find it unappealing and it has no bearing on his orgasm. He's already cum at that point! I don't put it in my mouth. Women don't expect men to swallow anything there's no comparison. Licking a vulva is no different to licking a penis with pre cum. If I squirted for example I would not expect him to take it in his mouth and there's no expectation on men to do that already.

''Some do it to seem cool''

Not in my experience. And at a rough guess, I've had my penis sucked by more ladies than itsbetterthanabox has had hers sucked :).

''It has no bearing on his orgasm...''

Really? Thats funny, because for me, as a fairly typical bloke, I tend to ejaculate DURING my orgasm, not before and not after, so yeah, it does have some bearing on his orgasm. Imagine a guy performing cunnilingus upon his lover, but as she's getting close to cumming he stops and moves his head away. Would that have any bearing upon her orgasm? It just might...

Yeah, itsbetterthanabox, you've not swayed me with any of your points I'm afraid.

Licking a vulva is no different to licking a penis with pre cum
Have you ever licked a vulva? I would suggest that it's not the same at all.

Even if a women isn't that keen on him ejaculating in her mouth, it doesn't make it wrong for her to still do it. It doesn't even mean that she is trying to be cool. It could just mean that she doesn't object to it that strongly and she is happy to do something that gives him pleasure in the same way as he does things to give her pleasure. As long as there is no pressure, she should be free to make her own decision.

If she really doesn't want to or doesn't like it, then it's absolutely right for her not to do it, but she shouldn't be told that she's degrading herself if she is happy to do it.

Yes I have gone down on a woman.
I said some not all.
If someone is climaxing it doesn't matter where their deposit ends up. You climax either way.

If someone is climaxing it doesn't matter where their deposit ends up. You climax either way
I am more inclined to believe a man who has experienced this himself and tells me there is a big difference, than a woman who cannot possibly have a clue.
It would definitely make a huge difference to me if my DH stopped or even changed his stimulation of me while I was climaxing. I would still climax but it would be nowhere near as intense as if he had continued.

There may well be some men who don't mind at all if the woman doesn't want to, but I doubt there are any who would say that they would actually prefer it if the woman stopped oral stimulation before his ejaculation.

Has nobody watched Sex in the city other than myself?

Samantha's top tip is to eat pineapple lots of it - the gentleman obviously not the lady. Makes it taste a bit less revolting and it does actually work. Sadly any dehydration, poor diet or drinking binges tend to make it taste unpleasant.

Use the just hand just at the end. Your using your hand too anyway. I'm not saying anyone has to not I'm just saying it's still just as nice for most men. If a guy insists on spunk in the mouth that's not ok.

It's not ok for anyone to insist on anything in bed, regardless of their genitalia.

I give blow jobs only to men I want to give them to, and I swallow because I want to. If anything was going to make me feel degraded it would be some of the posts on this thread.

I wouldn't choose a glass of chilled spunk on a hot summer's day anymore than I'd think men would choose a chilled glass of vag juice but in the heat of the moment I like swallowing and think some of you ought to think a bit about how you judge what other women do in bed and the terms you use to discuss those choices.

Definitely not a swallower here. The taste and consistency of it in my mouth makes me want to gag and I realised I was only doing it because it's considered to be something men like.

I told my DH that when he scoops up and swallows a mouthful of his sperm only then can he ask me to do the same